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by buffettbride
December 12, 2013 9:46 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: In a pickle...more aging parent drama
Replies: 31
Views: 2607

Re: In a pickle...more aging parent drama

I really appreciate all the kind words. I am pretty much detaching from the situation because it frustrates me so much. I am so thankful I have Hubby and my sisters to make this all more bearable.
by buffettbride
December 11, 2013 12:08 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: In a pickle...more aging parent drama
Replies: 31
Views: 2607

Re: In a pickle...more aging parent drama

I'm actually more at peace with it now. It's becoming very clear my stepdad is in his final days, so the January 15th deadline becomes a non-issue (it doesn't help that was the date of my parent's anniversary...). Now I'm just counting the hours/days when my sisters and I can collect the remaining i...
by buffettbride
December 10, 2013 4:40 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: In a pickle...more aging parent drama
Replies: 31
Views: 2607

Re: In a pickle...more aging parent drama

All you need is a parole violation and your problem is solved. If he got caught twice he'll get caught again. :pirate: I'm sure there will be another parole violation. We thought about (sort of) going over to my stepdad's house on the 15th with my teenage daughter in the living room so there is min...
by buffettbride
December 10, 2013 9:41 am
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: In a pickle...more aging parent drama
Replies: 31
Views: 2607

Re: In a pickle...more aging parent drama

Well, this just stinks big time and I can't even begin to imagine the heartache you and your family are experiencing. Sounds like your step-dad is trying to solve several problems at the same time - having someone to care for him and giving the offender a place to go upon release. I'm not sure I wo...
by buffettbride
December 9, 2013 7:23 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: In a pickle...more aging parent drama
Replies: 31
Views: 2607

Re: In a pickle...more aging parent drama

My stepbrother cannot have contact with any minors. There are no restrictions on where he can live in terms of close to schools, etc. I think the discharge planner idea is a good one. The sad fact is my stepdad has plenty of cash for a paid caregiver and other combinations of family besides this sit...
by buffettbride
December 9, 2013 5:58 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: In a pickle...more aging parent drama
Replies: 31
Views: 2607

In a pickle...more aging parent drama

My stepdad is hanging on with a prognosis of 1-2 months with home hospice care. His daughter-in-law (wife of my stepbrother) has taken on most of the day-to-day caregiving duties and is staying with him more or less full time. Various other caregivers (my family included) help daily with meals, clea...
by buffettbride
November 22, 2013 10:24 am
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: Experience dealing with aging/sick parent
Replies: 9
Views: 932

Re: Experience dealing with aging/sick parent

Thanks, all. I'm sure we'll figure something out. And hospice will provide us a list of caregiver services so we can pick someone to help fill in the gaps. I may or may not be lots of help (Hubby is actually my stepdad's durable power of attorney so has been doing most of this while I hold down the ...
by buffettbride
November 21, 2013 2:43 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: Experience dealing with aging/sick parent
Replies: 9
Views: 932

Re: Experience dealing with aging/sick parent

Our options may be diminshed. The doc let us know today that my stepdad may not be a good candidate for the chemo because of his poor existing help. Any advice is still helpful. When my mom was released to hospice, she had my stepdad 24x7, so this is weird territory for us. He has other natural chil...
by buffettbride
November 21, 2013 12:16 pm
Forum: Jimmy Buffett Discussion
Topic: Wife's Lawyer Questioned me about Buffett during our Divorce
Replies: 12
Views: 2111

Re: Wife's Lawyer Questioned me about Buffett during our Divorce

I think the real question here is who gets custody of the Frozen Concoction maker.
by buffettbride
November 21, 2013 12:09 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: Experience dealing with aging/sick parent
Replies: 9
Views: 932

Experience dealing with aging/sick parent

So, my stepdad is sick. Really sick. He has incurable, stage 4 prostate cancer that has matastacized and evolved into a small-cell cancer type in his lymph nodes. His options are essentially +/- 2 months with no treatment or +/- 9 months (70% chance) with aggressive chemo treatments. He has been hos...
by buffettbride
October 25, 2013 12:17 pm
Forum: Pre-Concert Gatherings / Who's Going to ...
Topic: Denver, Oct 22, 2013....who's in??
Replies: 138
Views: 19403

Re: Denver, Oct 22, 2013....who's in??

I had a great time in Denver, but it was too short. I should have either left Las Vegas Sunday instead of Monday or stayed in Denver yesterday and come home today. It was great to see everyone, some again and some for the first time. Great seeing Penny & E again for the first time since they go...
by buffettbride
October 20, 2013 10:03 am
Forum: Jimmy Buffett Discussion
Topic: Least Favorite JB cover
Replies: 41
Views: 6709

Re: Least Favorite JB cover

pair8head wrote:I've said it before and I'll say it again Defying Gravity
Is the absolute worst song ever.
I don't like it either.
by buffettbride
October 11, 2013 11:08 am
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: News about sporks
Replies: 35
Views: 10135

Re: News about sporks

lime rickie wrote:
I'm an Altered Boy wrote:
buffettbride wrote: things went drastically wrong...
Ha Ha! I remember that well viewtopic.php?f=31&t=35753&hilit=fork
I think things went drastically right!
Hilarious... :lol:
Those were the good 'ol days.
by buffettbride
October 10, 2013 1:36 pm
Forum: Pre-Concert Gatherings / Who's Going to ...
Topic: Denver, Oct 22, 2013....who's in??
Replies: 138
Views: 19403

Re: Denver, Oct 22, 2013....who's in??

SMLCHNG wrote::-? :-? :-? That's a whole lotta stuff going on, Mal.
It is, and I'm exhausted. :-?
by buffettbride
October 10, 2013 1:34 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: News about sporks
Replies: 35
Views: 10135

Re: News about sporks

I'm an Altered Boy wrote:
buffettbride wrote: things went drastically wrong...
Ha Ha! I remember that well viewtopic.php?f=31&t=35753&hilit=fork
I think things went drastically right!
Oh Timmah! You made my day!
by buffettbride
October 9, 2013 5:23 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: News about sporks
Replies: 35
Views: 10135

Re: News about sporks

FYI--there are 41 pages worth of posts with the word "spork" in it.

It all started when I didn't have a utensil to eat my lunch. I had a spoon but needed a fork.

I posted about it on BN and things went drastically wrong...
by buffettbride
October 7, 2013 11:24 am
Forum: Pre-Concert Gatherings / Who's Going to ...
Topic: Denver, Oct 22, 2013....who's in??
Replies: 138
Views: 19403

Re: Denver, Oct 22, 2013....who's in??

Have to say we're looking pretty tentative for this. :-? We've run the gamut of family issues lately and are taking care of my husband's learning disabled brother since he wrecked his car and his parents are out of the country (means lots of driving him to/from work, appointments, and school at time...
by buffettbride
October 7, 2013 11:05 am
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: 2013 NFL Season
Replies: 398
Views: 50448

Re: 2013 NFL Season

:roll: :roll: :roll: Dallas Cowboys' Tony Romo calls out Denver Broncos' secondary for rough play http://www.9news.com/sports/football/nfl/358071/610/Romo-calls-out-Broncos-secondary-for-rough-play Coming from a QB with about a third of the skill of PM. Wow. With only 1/3 the skill of Manning, he p...
by buffettbride
October 4, 2013 11:20 am
Forum: Jokes
Topic: How Many BNrs Does It Take...............?
Replies: 75
Views: 13715

Re: How Many BNrs Does It Take...............?

My lightbulbs like boobies. Or my boobies are like lightbulbs.

I like boobies.
by buffettbride
October 3, 2013 2:17 pm
Forum: Off Topic Area
Topic: 2013 NFL Season
Replies: 398
Views: 50448

Re: 2013 NFL Season

SMLCHNG wrote::roll: :roll: :roll:
Dallas Cowboys' Tony Romo calls out Denver Broncos' secondary for rough play
http://www.9news.com/sports/football/nf ... rough-play
Coming from a QB with about a third of the skill of PM.