Connie, I agree with you there. I think the reporter was way out of line and owes the family an apology.
I to lay the blame on people that do nothing. I can understand that people don't want to get hurt by getting involved...but that is the difference between courage and cowardice. How many times have people heard spousal or child BEATING (not spanking) or abuse and did nothing??? Granted there are cases that people did get involved and things were blown out of proportion. I mentioned a case that happened in a grocery store where a woman slapped her son that was being a hellion in a grocery store elsewhere....and what happened with her and her family.
All it takes for good people to do nothing and the bad guys will win. If you don't know how to help or do the right thing, then learn...I think everyone needs to learn that. I am positive that some people will get hurt, but someone is going to get hurt anyway and if you were the one in that situation or it was your wife or daughter or girlfriend..I seriously doubt you would believe or say that you asked for it to happen to you or ..." They asked for it to happen to them." and you would not want anyone to help them...
GRANTED SITUATIONAL AWARENESS IS THE KEY.....Knowing your area and situation and keeping aware of it....ALLWAYS be aware of your surroundings...okies the girl was young and no doubt told this, but I cannot say that she deserved whatever happened to her. That is the badguy's fault.... The badguy committed the crime...If she made any mistakes at all and being at that age and inexperieced..was that she allowed herself to become a victim and that is not a crime on any law books is it? But no doubt whatever happened to her definitely is somewhere.....
I know Larry might remember this, or used to, as we had a chat about it long ago elsewhere....
Some years ago, in NYC( I think it was, could have been N.J. ) a woman was murdered and something like 37 people watched it or heard it happen and no one did anything about it. roughly 37 PEOPLE.... not one of them did anything or attempted any actions to save her....
No one wanted to get involved....
The young girl form Alabama, may have dressed in a provacative manner...I do not know. If she was it is no excuse to rape her and say she was asking for it or out to get laid...
GEEZE if that were a legitmate excuse...there would no doubt be ALOT MORE rapes being commited... not to mention what 12 and 13 year old girls are wearing these days.....
Who knows if she was horny or drunk??? Maybe she had been drinking but was not drunk...??? Maybe the guys thought she was wanting more and she really didn't want anything more or perhaps she realized what was going on and did not want it to happen... HELL many things could have happened....most anything could have happened... The thing is she is missing and presumed dead....I know I would do whatever it takes to keep the heat and pressure on and the search to be continued until she was found....I have done it in the past...no I did not resort to the media, but I was ready to if they had not been found when they were...I know the cops have a tough job and do the best that they can and they get pressure from above to close cases as quickly as possible...
As far as only young white pretty girls being publicized....I cannot say that for this area....They are quite good at covering anything from children of any race to elderly people. They show pictures and a phone number to contact if you have any information.
In this country alone, there are tens of thousands of people that go missing every year... no one ever really notices or hears about. No I do not believe it is for racial reasons either...