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Post by ph4ever » August 5, 2005 4:24 pm

iuparrothead wrote:
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DsilCaribe wrote:by the way, what is your deffinition of a slut. To me, if you are wearing what that girl in my above mentioned story was wearing, thats slutty
I appreciate how you phrased this. I see your point and I find it very valid. I guess I think being 'slutty' is about action... the way you dress does not necessarily represent what you will do. I understand that we live in a misogynist society that assumes if a girl is dressed provocatively, then she must want to be taken advantage of sexually... which we know is not necessarily the case, but does not prevent people from thinking that way & from certain people from acting upon that assumption.
I wouldn't call it misogynistic, since when you look back to someone like Madonna who proclaimed that her dressing in a provocative way was not slutty,
but empowering to all women. Well, I'm sure it is! ...especially when you've got a pair of bodyguards with you! 8) :-?
Oh please... no matter how much feminism and women's rights groups have advanced the cause of women, this country as a whole is still predominatly patriarchal & misogynistic. There can't be any denying that. There may be an occasional female celebrity that makes statements on behalf of a women's advancement cause, but that is their statement, not a cultural shift for the entire country. :-?
am I the only one that gets hot when Ann uses big words?? :o :lol:
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Post by buffettbride » August 5, 2005 4:25 pm

ph4ever wrote:
iuparrothead wrote:
Lightning Bolt wrote:
iuparrothead wrote:
DsilCaribe wrote:by the way, what is your deffinition of a slut. To me, if you are wearing what that girl in my above mentioned story was wearing, thats slutty
I appreciate how you phrased this. I see your point and I find it very valid. I guess I think being 'slutty' is about action... the way you dress does not necessarily represent what you will do. I understand that we live in a misogynist society that assumes if a girl is dressed provocatively, then she must want to be taken advantage of sexually... which we know is not necessarily the case, but does not prevent people from thinking that way & from certain people from acting upon that assumption.
I wouldn't call it misogynistic, since when you look back to someone like Madonna who proclaimed that her dressing in a provocative way was not slutty,
but empowering to all women. Well, I'm sure it is! ...especially when you've got a pair of bodyguards with you! 8) :-?
Oh please... no matter how much feminism and women's rights groups have advanced the cause of women, this country as a whole is still predominatly patriarchal & misogynistic. There can't be any denying that. There may be an occasional female celebrity that makes statements on behalf of a women's advancement cause, but that is their statement, not a cultural shift for the entire country. :-?
am I the only one that gets hot when Ann uses big words?? :o :lol:
no :oops:
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Post by iuparrothead » August 5, 2005 4:25 pm

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Post by buffettbride » August 5, 2005 4:26 pm

iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
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Post by iuparrothead » August 5, 2005 4:29 pm

buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
No. :lol: Although it doesn't take much... :P

Hmmm... and I like to wear skirts, heels & camisoles... I must be a slut. :-? :lol:
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Post by rednekkPH » August 5, 2005 4:30 pm

iuparrothead wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
No. :lol: Although it doesn't take much... :P

Hmmm... and I like to wear skirts, heels & camisoles... I must be a slut. :-? :lol:
Well, duh :roll:



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Post by buffettbride » August 5, 2005 4:30 pm

iuparrothead wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
No. :lol: Although it doesn't take much... :P

Hmmm... and I like to wear skirts, heels & camisoles... I must be a slut. :-? :lol:
I don't wear underwear, so I must be too! And I wear shirts that say "In N Out".
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Post by ph4ever » August 5, 2005 4:32 pm

buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
No. :lol: Although it doesn't take much... :P

Hmmm... and I like to wear skirts, heels & camisoles... I must be a slut. :-? :lol:
I don't wear underwear, so I must be too! And I wear shirts that say "In N Out".
just call me slutmommy :roll: :lol:
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Post by ParrotheadGator » August 5, 2005 4:34 pm

buffettbride wrote: And I'm sure none of us have ever dressed provocatively for a Buffett show or sent out a message perhaps we weren't meaning to send. Every chick in a bikini must want to be taken advantage of and of course all the fine, upstanding people here at BN turn their eyes away to uphold their moral authority.
Apples and Oranges.

You can't compare wearing a bikini to a Buffett concert, where you're most likely with friends, to going to a foreign country, dressed slutty, probably drunk and getting in a car with total strangers.....

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Post by LIPH » August 5, 2005 4:35 pm

iuparrothead wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
No. :lol: Although it doesn't take much... :P

Hmmm... and I like to wear skirts, heels & camisoles... I must be a slut. :-? :lol:
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Post by buffettbride » August 5, 2005 4:35 pm

ParrotheadGator wrote:
buffettbride wrote: And I'm sure none of us have ever dressed provocatively for a Buffett show or sent out a message perhaps we weren't meaning to send. Every chick in a bikini must want to be taken advantage of and of course all the fine, upstanding people here at BN turn their eyes away to uphold their moral authority.
Apples and Oranges.

You can't compare wearing a bikini to a Buffett concert, where you're most likely with friends, to going to a foreign country, dressed slutty, probably drunk and getting in a car with total strangers.....
Umm, girls get drunk and meet strangers at Buffett shows all the freakin' time. I've seen it with my own eyes. Hell, I've done it a time or two.


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Post by Sidew13 » August 5, 2005 4:37 pm

iuparrothead wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
No. :lol: Although it doesn't take much... :P

Hmmm... and I like to wear skirts, heels & camisoles... I must be a slut. :-? :lol:
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Post by rednekkPH » August 5, 2005 4:38 pm

Sidew13 wrote:
iuparrothead wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
iuparrothead wrote::oops:
Did you make yourself hot?
No. :lol: Although it doesn't take much... :P

Hmmm... and I like to wear skirts, heels & camisoles... I must be a slut. :-? :lol:
Father, I need confession for inpure thoughts :oops:
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Post by UAHparrothead » August 5, 2005 4:38 pm

She could have been wearing a tight tank top with "I see you've met the twins" on it. I doesn't give anyone the right to do anything against her will.

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Post by iuparrothead » August 5, 2005 4:40 pm

UAHparrothead wrote:She could have been wearing a tight tank top with "I see you've met the twins" on it. I doesn't give anyone the right to do anything against her will.
:lol: high five, Brad! Right on!

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Post by Lightning Bolt » August 5, 2005 4:40 pm

iuparrothead wrote:
Lightning Bolt wrote:
iuparrothead wrote:
DsilCaribe wrote:by the way, what is your deffinition of a slut. To me, if you are wearing what that girl in my above mentioned story was wearing, thats slutty
I appreciate how you phrased this. I see your point and I find it very valid. I guess I think being 'slutty' is about action... the way you dress does not necessarily represent what you will do. I understand that we live in a misogynist society that assumes if a girl is dressed provocatively, then she must want to be taken advantage of sexually... which we know is not necessarily the case, but does not prevent people from thinking that way & from certain people from acting upon that assumption.
I wouldn't call it misogynistic, since when you look back to someone like Madonna who proclaimed that her dressing in a provocative way was not slutty,
but empowering to all women. Well, I'm sure it is! ...especially when you've got a pair of bodyguards with you! 8) :-?
Oh please... no matter how much feminism and women's rights groups have advanced the cause of women, this country as a whole is still predominatly patriarchal & misogynistic. There can't be any denying that. There may be an occasional female celebrity that makes statements on behalf of a women's advancement cause, but that is their statement, not a cultural shift for the entire country. :-?
I hear you, but don't necessarily agree.
Who's captaining the Shuttle Mission right now? Who's the leading Democratic Presidential hopeful for '08? You don't see that as part of a cultural shift?
Now, as far as sex is concerned, you're right. Those attitudes are shifting as swift as a glacier. Only the most industrialized, enlightened societies are on board there,
if you can call that progress.
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Post by UAHparrothead » August 5, 2005 4:41 pm

iuparrothead wrote:
UAHparrothead wrote:She could have been wearing a tight tank top with "I see you've met the twins" on it. I doesn't give anyone the right to do anything against her will.
:lol: high five, Brad! Right on!

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Post by ph4ever » August 5, 2005 4:43 pm

this is what I don't understand - the MAJORITY of young guys won't even talk to a woman/girl in a bar unless they are dressed a certain way. So if you want to just meet new guys you have to dress that way because if you don't you'll basically be ignored. Then when something happens to the girl the same guys say "she was dressed like a slut". Talk about a freaking double standard - you won't talk to a girl dressed in modest clothing and you call a girl a slut if she does.
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Post by rednekkPH » August 5, 2005 4:43 pm

UAHparrothead wrote:
iuparrothead wrote:
UAHparrothead wrote:She could have been wearing a tight tank top with "I see you've met the twins" on it. I doesn't give anyone the right to do anything against her will.
:lol: high five, Brad! Right on!

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Post by buffettbride » August 5, 2005 4:45 pm

ph4ever wrote:this is what I don't understand - the MAJORITY of young guys won't even talk to a woman/girl in a bar unless they are dressed a certain way. So if you want to just meet new guys you have to dress that way because if you don't you'll basically be ignored. Then when something happens to the girl the same guys say "she was dressed like a slut". Talk about a freaking double standard - you won't talk to a girl dressed in modest clothing and you call a girl a slut if she does.
It's called wanting a princess in public and a slut in the sack.
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