Do you Forgive and Forget?

AlbatrossFlyer · Post by **AlbatrossFlyer** » November 1, 2005 12:25 pm

nycparrothead wrote:
mings wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:She sounds like a c-word to me... Don't talk to her again and hire a contract killer to have her removed from my planet immediately...
The contract killer is probably easier for us to hire considering we're in the right city. Maybe they can even invited us out to see their work - you know - before you sign the contract and all.
My girlfriend is Italian and I'm convinced that her father is a mafia boss... If I can just get her to admit it to me I can probably get a family discount or somethin'...

is he in the wholesale produce or waste disposal bidness?

nycparrothead · Post by **nycparrothead** » November 1, 2005 12:28 pm

AlbatrossFlyer wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:
mings wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:She sounds like a c-word to me... Don't talk to her again and hire a contract killer to have her removed from my planet immediately...
The contract killer is probably easier for us to hire considering we're in the right city. Maybe they can even invited us out to see their work - you know - before you sign the contract and all.
My girlfriend is Italian and I'm convinced that her father is a mafia boss... If I can just get her to admit it to me I can probably get a family discount or somethin'...
is he in the wholesale produce or waste disposal bidness?

No but he is a retired importer/exporter and we all know that is a make believe job. And incidentally, per your last post, his name is Tony.

mings · Post by **mings** » November 1, 2005 12:30 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:She sounds like a c-word to me... Don't talk to her again and hire a contract killer to have her removed from my planet immediately...
Know any good ones?

NOt right now. Frankie is somewhere in the WPP, Paulie is in Federal custody, and Peter is laying low somewhere.

AlbatrossFlyer · Post by **AlbatrossFlyer** » November 1, 2005 12:31 pm

nycparrothead wrote:
AlbatrossFlyer wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:
mings wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:She sounds like a c-word to me... Don't talk to her again and hire a contract killer to have her removed from my planet immediately...
The contract killer is probably easier for us to hire considering we're in the right city. Maybe they can even invited us out to see their work - you know - before you sign the contract and all.
My girlfriend is Italian and I'm convinced that her father is a mafia boss... If I can just get her to admit it to me I can probably get a family discount or somethin'...
is he in the wholesale produce or waste disposal bidness?
No but he is a retired importer/exporter and we all know that is a make believe job. And incidentally, per your last post, his name is Tony.

my highschool yearbook looked like the credits on an episode of the sopranos.

Sam · Post by **Sam** » November 1, 2005 12:31 pm

It would depend alot on how serious it was. How good of a friend was she?

I know this may sound strange, but tell them you forgive her and it is time for you move on, and walk away. I doubt if you would want or need to say anything else. At least you will not have anger and guilt over it. I had a cousin send me thoughtless letter anonymously last year after the wreck last year. She ended up admitting to sending it and apologized. I got word back to her, that I forgave her, but I could never forget the hurt and the pain she caused me. I have no intentions of speaking to or having dealings with her again. I have not seen or spoken with her in many years, no birthday cards or anything else, from her that I can ever recall...yet she claimed she cares and loves me so much. Not even any phone calls over the years.
So just forgive them and move on.

Cubbie Bear · Post by **Cubbie Bear** » November 1, 2005 12:33 pm

RUN FORREST

SweetMelissa · Post by **SweetMelissa** » November 1, 2005 12:33 pm

haha I forgot to mention it's my room mate, so it's an awkward living situation with me not talking to her right now.

But good news is I got an apartment and move in in december so just another onth of living with her.

buffettbride · Post by **buffettbride** » November 1, 2005 12:34 pm

Oooohhh. Here's a good standby. You could poison her cat! That'll show her!

Cubbie Bear · Post by **Cubbie Bear** » November 1, 2005 12:35 pm

here we go with the cats again

AlbatrossFlyer · Post by **AlbatrossFlyer** » November 1, 2005 12:35 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:haha I forgot to mention it's my room mate, so it's an awkward living situation with me not talking to her right now.

But good news is I got an apartment and move in in december so just another onth of living with her.

be polite and civil and then get out of dodge in Dec....

nycparrothead · Post by **nycparrothead** » November 1, 2005 12:36 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:haha I forgot to mention it's my room mate, so it's an awkward living situation with me not talking to her right now.

So when you wack her, you'll have your own place!

mings · Post by **mings** » November 1, 2005 12:37 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:haha I forgot to mention it's my room mate, so it's an awkward living situation with me not talking to her right now.

But good news is I got an apartment and move in in december so just another onth of living with her.

Ahh. Girls are good at that whole no-talking to each other thing. You'll be aight.

Gulfbreeze · Post by **Gulfbreeze** » November 1, 2005 12:39 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:do you forget and move on, or do you send them packing.?

I pretty much do all of the above...Forget...Move On...And Send Them Packing

Too many other things to be concerned with than someone that admittedly says they will continue the behavior that got you to this point in the first place...

BTW...Did she prowl through your undie drawer again??

SweetMelissa · Post by **SweetMelissa** » November 1, 2005 12:41 pm

Gulfbreeze wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:do you forget and move on, or do you send them packing.?

I pretty much do all of the above...Forget...Move On...And Send Them Packing

Too many other things to be concerned with than someone that admittedly says they will continue the behavior that got you to this point in the first place...

BTW...Did she prowl through your undie drawer again??

she's a freak she prob puts them on and dances around.

mings · Post by **mings** » November 1, 2005 12:42 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
Gulfbreeze wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:do you forget and move on, or do you send them packing.?

I pretty much do all of the above...Forget...Move On...And Send Them Packing

Too many other things to be concerned with than someone that admittedly says they will continue the behavior that got you to this point in the first place...

BTW...Did she prowl through your undie drawer again??
she's a freak she prob puts them on and dances around.

I coming over. Make sure she's there too.

Gulfbreeze · Post by **Gulfbreeze** » November 1, 2005 12:42 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
Gulfbreeze wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:do you forget and move on, or do you send them packing.?

I pretty much do all of the above...Forget...Move On...And Send Them Packing

Too many other things to be concerned with than someone that admittedly says they will continue the behavior that got you to this point in the first place...

BTW...Did she prowl through your undie drawer again??
she's a freak she prob puts them on and dances around.

So would I if I was your roommate...

Left Field ParrotHead · November 1, 2005 12:43 pm

Friendship is all about trust, and she can't be trusted. Cut her loose.

It'll be a little awkward until you move out but you can be civil without being friendly.

RinglingRingling · Post by **RinglingRingling** » November 1, 2005 12:44 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
Gulfbreeze wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:do you forget and move on, or do you send them packing.?

I pretty much do all of the above...Forget...Move On...And Send Them Packing

Too many other things to be concerned with than someone that admittedly says they will continue the behavior that got you to this point in the first place...

BTW...Did she prowl through your undie drawer again??
she's a freak she prob puts them on and dances around.

she's only a freak if she puts them on upside down and dances around in them..

AlbatrossFlyer · Post by **AlbatrossFlyer** » November 1, 2005 12:46 pm

RinglingRingling wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
Gulfbreeze wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:do you forget and move on, or do you send them packing.?

I pretty much do all of the above...Forget...Move On...And Send Them Packing

Too many other things to be concerned with than someone that admittedly says they will continue the behavior that got you to this point in the first place...

BTW...Did she prowl through your undie drawer again?? [/quote

she's a freak she prob puts them on and dances around.
she's only a freak if she puts them on upside down and dances around in them..

and everybody thought tommy was acting when he danced around in his underwear in risky business

iuparrothead · Post by **iuparrothead** » November 1, 2005 12:49 pm

I wouldn't really forgive that.

The most important thing is to tell her straight up that you cannot trust her and that you will not be able to maintain the friendship with her.

That's the best way to resolve a situation like you are in... just be bold, firm and direct. (of which, I'm sure you are anyway

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