Do you Forgive and Forget?

rednekkPH · Post by **rednekkPH** » November 1, 2005 1:22 pm

Is she hot?

buffettbride · Post by **buffettbride** » November 1, 2005 1:24 pm

I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

BadHabitsAcctnt · Post by **BadHabitsAcctnt** » November 1, 2005 1:29 pm

pbans wrote:I may be inclined to forgive someone that was truly sorry, but that sure doesn't sound like the case here......forgive, maybe......forget, never.

I certainly wouldn't put yourself in a situation to be hurt by a person that admits they're likely to do it again.....geez.

I agree, not promising. Once burned, twice learned. You don't really need friends like this, do you?

SweetMelissa · Post by **SweetMelissa** » November 1, 2005 1:31 pm

buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....

mings · Post by **mings** » November 1, 2005 1:33 pm

If it's all relative, every one of Melissa's friends are ugly.

buffettbride · Post by **buffettbride** » November 1, 2005 1:34 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....

It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.

LIPH · Post by **LIPH** » November 1, 2005 1:35 pm

buffettbride wrote:I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.

Somebody has to be there to scoop up the rejects.

rednekkPH · Post by **rednekkPH** » November 1, 2005 1:36 pm

LIPH wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
Somebody has to be there to scoop up the rejects.

I think they prefer to be called "the undesirables". Or "the Shanes"

mings · Post by **mings** » November 1, 2005 1:37 pm

buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....
It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.

You know, I think this is a scientific fact. I was at a bar last week with a buddy and we noticed that every group of girls in the place was either hot with one ugly friend, or ugly, with the token hot friend.

ToplessRideFL · Post by **ToplessRideFL** » November 1, 2005 1:37 pm

Ugly friends?? That is terrible!

Just getting up to speed Melissa.... I have learned never to tell anyone anything I do not want repeated on the nightly news... with exception to BNers of course.....

That way you avoid things coming back to bite you! Just for future reference!

As for your friend... I always ask the question... Will this (whatever this happens to be) impact my life is 5 years from now? If the answer in no.... move on!

SweetMelissa · Post by **SweetMelissa** » November 1, 2005 1:40 pm

mings wrote:If it's all relative, every one of Melissa's friends are ugly.

Awww that's so sweet, thanks!

mings · Post by **mings** » November 1, 2005 1:45 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
mings wrote:If it's all relative, every one of Melissa's friends are ugly.
Awww that's so sweet, thanks!

From the heart, my dear.

SweetMelissa · Post by **SweetMelissa** » November 1, 2005 1:47 pm

buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....
It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.

maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.

SweetMelissa · Post by **SweetMelissa** » November 1, 2005 1:48 pm

mings wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....
It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
You know, I think this is a scientific fact. I was at a bar last week with a buddy and we noticed that every group of girls in the place was either hot with one ugly friend, or ugly, with the token hot friend.

cheers to the wingmen. What girls need 'em too.

buffettbride · Post by **buffettbride** » November 1, 2005 1:50 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....
It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.

damn!!! maybe that's it!! we've unlocked the secret of womanhood!

aeroparrot · Post by **aeroparrot** » November 1, 2005 1:52 pm

nycparrothead wrote:
AlbatrossFlyer wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:
mings wrote:
nycparrothead wrote:She sounds like a c-word to me... Don't talk to her again and hire a contract killer to have her removed from my planet immediately...
The contract killer is probably easier for us to hire considering we're in the right city. Maybe they can even invited us out to see their work - you know - before you sign the contract and all.
My girlfriend is Italian and I'm convinced that her father is a mafia boss... If I can just get her to admit it to me I can probably get a family discount or somethin'...
is he in the wholesale produce or waste disposal bidness?
No but he is a retired importer/exporter and we all know that is a make believe job. And incidentally, per your last post, his name is Tony.

I met this Italian couple from Brooklyn while visiting a college friend in south Florida. He was in the construction business and then moved to south Florida to open a Italian restaurant, and yes they did have the thickest Brooklyn accent you could believe.

carolinagirl · Post by **carolinagirl** » November 1, 2005 2:26 pm

buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....
It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.
damn!!! maybe that's it!! we've unlocked the secret of womanhood!

Maybe that's the age that the ugly friends wise up and begin to appreciate their inner beauty and lose the superficial hot "friends."

Just jumping into the fray here...

SweetMelissa · Post by **SweetMelissa** » November 1, 2005 2:29 pm

carolinagirl wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:I'm gonna venture a guess and say she's Melissa's *UGLY* friend, or else she wouldn't have to use her deep, dark secrets against her.

bingo....
It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.
damn!!! maybe that's it!! we've unlocked the secret of womanhood!
Maybe that's the age that the ugly friends wise up and begin to appreciate their inner beauty and lose the superficial hot "friends."

Just jumping into the fray here...

superficial? hmm clearly this girls personality is not up to par, and it's a joke

carolinagirl · Post by **carolinagirl** » November 1, 2005 2:30 pm

BadHabitsAcctnt wrote:
pbans wrote:I may be inclined to forgive someone that was truly sorry, but that sure doesn't sound like the case here......forgive, maybe......forget, never.

I certainly wouldn't put yourself in a situation to be hurt by a person that admits they're likely to do it again.....geez.
I agree, not promising. Once burned, twice learned. You don't really need friends like this, do you?

Back on topic, I'm with Paige here. I forgive and forget in a heartbeat when someone says "I'm sorry. I shouldn't have done that."

But I'm awful about dwelling on a wrong when someone has no remorse and is inclined to do it again. Those are the hardest to forgive... I've had a horrible two years with two "friends" here, and I'm finally TRYING to take hubby's and other friend's advice and let these two go. There's so much drama with people who aren't really your friends, but try to make you think they are to your face!

carolinagirl · Post by **carolinagirl** » November 1, 2005 2:31 pm

SweetMelissa wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
bingo....
It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.
damn!!! maybe that's it!! we've unlocked the secret of womanhood!
Maybe that's the age that the ugly friends wise up and begin to appreciate their inner beauty and lose the superficial hot "friends."

Just jumping into the fray here...
superficial? hmm clearly this girls personality is not up to par, and it's a joke

Wasn't talking about your "friend," just token "ugly" friends with hot chicks... Mine was a joke too!