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carolinagirl wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote: It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.
damn!!! maybe that's it!! we've unlocked the secret of womanhood!
Maybe that's the age that the ugly friends wise up and begin to appreciate their inner beauty and lose the superficial hot "friends." :D

Just jumping into the fray here...
superficial? hmm clearly this girls personality is not up to par, and it's a joke :roll:
Wasn't talking about your "friend," just token "ugly" friends with hot chicks... Mine was a joke too! :D
k then hugs and kisses! :wink: :lol:
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carolinagirl wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
buffettbride wrote: It does sukk to lose your ugly friend. They are such an asset when you go out. I lost my ugly friend, too, on my 23rd birthday.

((Melissa))

I'm sure there are many other ugly girls out there that will be your friend.
maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.
damn!!! maybe that's it!! we've unlocked the secret of womanhood!
Maybe that's the age that the ugly friends wise up and begin to appreciate their inner beauty and lose the superficial hot "friends." :D

Just jumping into the fray here...
superficial? hmm clearly this girls personality is not up to par, and it's a joke :roll:
Wasn't talking about your "friend," just token "ugly" friends with hot chicks... Mine was a joke too! :D
Melissa is NOT Superficial. Nor is BB. That's why they're on this board. Because they don't care about what people think. Jeez. :wink: :wink: :lol: :lol:
"Oh all the money that e'er I spent, I spent it in good company.
And all the harm that I ever did, Alas it was to none but me.
And since it falls, unto my lot, that I should rise and you should not
I'll gently rise and I'll softly call, 'Goodnight and Joy be with you all.'"
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again..... bingo. :lol:
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SweetMelissa wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
buffettbride wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote: maybe that's just the age when you lose the ugly friend...i'll be 23 soon.
damn!!! maybe that's it!! we've unlocked the secret of womanhood!
Maybe that's the age that the ugly friends wise up and begin to appreciate their inner beauty and lose the superficial hot "friends." :D

Just jumping into the fray here...
superficial? hmm clearly this girls personality is not up to par, and it's a joke :roll:
Wasn't talking about your "friend," just token "ugly" friends with hot chicks... Mine was a joke too! :D
k then hugs and kisses! :wink: :lol:
Thanks! Backatcha... You're having a rough enough time as it is...

And I thought girls outgrew this backstabbing behavior in middle school, but it's a shame that some NEVER do! My "friends" are in their 40s and 50s!!! I call them Grown Women Behaving Badly...(when I'm being nice) (they are moms of my son's two best friends, so I have to continue to interact with them.)

Hope your roommate moves out sooner than December; that's a long time to hang around someone you can't trust. Bad for the nerves!
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mings wrote: You know, I think this is a scientific fact. I was at a bar last week with a buddy and we noticed that every group of girls in the place was either hot with one ugly friend, or ugly, with the token hot friend.
::crap::
Now I have to figure out where I fit in all this time......
I always thought it was because I was a delight to be around......

Is this anything like one out of every four people are mentally ill?
If the other three people in the room seem normal....there you are.
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SweetMelissa wrote:again..... bingo. :lol:
'Sup buddy. :wink: :wink:
"Oh all the money that e'er I spent, I spent it in good company.
And all the harm that I ever did, Alas it was to none but me.
And since it falls, unto my lot, that I should rise and you should not
I'll gently rise and I'll softly call, 'Goodnight and Joy be with you all.'"
-JMH
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Post by Lightning Bolt »

:roll: :roll: :roll:

...Tonight, on a very special Blossom... :wink:
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Post by SweetMelissa »

thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
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SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
"Oh all the money that e'er I spent, I spent it in good company.
And all the harm that I ever did, Alas it was to none but me.
And since it falls, unto my lot, that I should rise and you should not
I'll gently rise and I'll softly call, 'Goodnight and Joy be with you all.'"
-JMH
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Post by carolinagirl »

SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
Agreed! My hubby's getting sick of me saying all girls are B**ches...
Don't know how most guys stand 'em!!!
All BNers clearly excepted!!!
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Post by bumper »

call it even....you used her pooch look to your advantage....she used your gullibility to hers. Pass it on :wink:
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mings wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
Shut up, Mings... You said Jeez to me and rolled your eyes... Oops no you didn't roll your eyes...
:oops: nevermind
How zat for some drama for ya...

Just kidding! :D
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Post by bumper »

carolinagirl wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
Agreed! My hubby's getting sick of me saying all girls are B**ches...
Don't know how most guys stand 'em!!!
All BNers clearly excepted!!!
yeah me to
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Post by bumper »

carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
Shut up, Mings... You said Jeez to me and rolled your eyes... Oops no you didn't roll your eyes...
:oops: nevermind
How zat for some drama for ya...

Just kidding! :D
you certainly showing some potential :wink: :wink:
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bumper wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
Shut up, Mings... You said Jeez to me and rolled your eyes... Oops no you didn't roll your eyes...
:oops: nevermind
How zat for some drama for ya...

Just kidding! :D
you certainly showing some potential :wink: :wink:
:P :P :P :lol:
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carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
Shut up, Mings... You said Jeez to me and rolled your eyes... Oops no you didn't roll your eyes...
:oops: nevermind
How zat for some drama for ya...

Just kidding! :D
Nice. Let me go get some beers and Creeky can pop some popcorn and we're golden. Drama-away.
"Oh all the money that e'er I spent, I spent it in good company.
And all the harm that I ever did, Alas it was to none but me.
And since it falls, unto my lot, that I should rise and you should not
I'll gently rise and I'll softly call, 'Goodnight and Joy be with you all.'"
-JMH
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mings wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
Shut up, Mings... You said Jeez to me and rolled your eyes... Oops no you didn't roll your eyes...
:oops: nevermind
How zat for some drama for ya...

Just kidding! :D
Nice. Let me go get some beers and Creeky can pop some popcorn and we're golden. Drama-away.
Creeky's sleeping... I thought Jodibug did the popcorn, anyway...
Sorry, hate to disappoint, but I just don't have the staying power for really entertaining drama! :D
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carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
Shut up, Mings... You said Jeez to me and rolled your eyes... Oops no you didn't roll your eyes...
:oops: nevermind
How zat for some drama for ya...

Just kidding! :D
Nice. Let me go get some beers and Creeky can pop some popcorn and we're golden. Drama-away.
Creeky's sleeping... I thought Jodibug did the popcorn, anyway...
Sorry, hate to disappoint, but I just don't have the staying power for really entertaining drama! :D
Creeky's awake - It's 7 there. I was mistaken about the popcorn. Damn. Jodi will never forgive me.
No Drama? That's disappionting.
"Oh all the money that e'er I spent, I spent it in good company.
And all the harm that I ever did, Alas it was to none but me.
And since it falls, unto my lot, that I should rise and you should not
I'll gently rise and I'll softly call, 'Goodnight and Joy be with you all.'"
-JMH
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Post by creeky »

carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:
mings wrote:
SweetMelissa wrote:thanks CG, I agree some girls are just insane.

This is why I only have a select few female friends. guys are so much easier, because they just don't give a sh** about drama!
I hate drama. Well that needs clarifying. I hate being in it or being involved. I like it if it's going to be a good show. A nice cat fight is always entertaining, plus broadway sometimes has good drama.
Shut up, Mings... You said Jeez to me and rolled your eyes... Oops no you didn't roll your eyes...
:oops: nevermind
How zat for some drama for ya...

Just kidding! :D
Nice. Let me go get some beers and Creeky can pop some popcorn and we're golden. Drama-away.
Creeky's sleeping... I thought Jodibug did the popcorn, anyway...
Sorry, hate to disappoint, but I just don't have the staying power for really entertaining drama! :D
I am awake!

And for the record - I am a very forgiving person - too forgiving. Unfortunately in my lifetime have had people in my life that are not forgivign - and dont even try to find out the "real" story behind things - their loss I say - not mine.

People mess up ..... small things turn in to big things it happens.
Now - if it were something BIG - there would be no going back though!
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Post by tikitatas »

When we harbour resentment, it just adds to the burden of baggage that some of us have carried too long. Don't forgive and forget. One of my Buddhist teachers teaches "forgive and remember" and learn, and move on. Live in the moment.
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