Posted: March 27, 2006 3:35 pm
If my husband went from being a man's husband to somebody elses' wife, I'd snap too.Desdamona wrote:It looks like this may be a very possible option.Coconuts wrote:Or, option 4- the wife went off her meds and snapped. It could be something horrible under the surface, but that doesn't necessarily mean under the surface of the pastor.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,189200,00.html
E-mail No. 3 — This is an interesting e-mail. I can't vouch for the content
since I have not corroborated the assertions, but include it for you to
review:
Greta,
To get some insight into Mary Winkler's motive you might want to check
into her medical background. I think that you will find among other things
she suffers from Lupus. I also think that you will find she has been treated
for either a bipolar disorder or manic depression.
In the last two or three years she had a miscarriage. She lost her mother
in the last two years. She gave birth to a child in the last 13 months. Her
husband went from being a youth minister's husband to being the wife of a
full-time congregational minister. She moved to a new location. All of these
things are extremely stressful.
I would also check into when she and her husband were in Nashville, and
he was a youth minister there. I would check to see if there were any
incidents of outbreaks of anger on her part, and if there was a medical
reason for this.
It is my belief that there are good medical reasons for her actions. I also
believe that her motive was based on perceptions that were not based in
reality. I would want to know if she was taking medication prescribed for
her.
I do not know Mary, but I know her husband's family, and I knew Matt. I
know many people who knew Mary and Matt well, and worked with them
over the last five years. Matt and his family are the best of people.
And as I said initially, at least she didn't see the need to drown the children.
(And yes, Lar, somewhere there is always a man to blame!)