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Seminolegrl, no one accused you of settling...you might want to read back. YOU are the one who brought up the height issue, which makes it look like you have an issue with it. No one here certainly does. Hell, my best friend is 5'9", her husband is my height, 5'4". She's caucasian, he's filipino. Yeah, they kinda look like Mutt and Jeff when you see them. Did either of them settle? Hell no, I couldn't have picked a better match for each other if I tried.

Those who worry too much about outward appearances and what others will think are destined to be unhappy, whether they are with someone or alone.....IMHO.

And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Brown Eyed Girl wrote: Those who worry too much about outward appearances and what others will think are destined to be unhappy, whether they are with someone or alone.....IMHO.

And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Yep, and Yep, and YEP!

txaggirl91 wrote: for me (and this is my opinon only), settling is thinking "well, i can't find anyone better than this guy/girl so i guess he/she will do". i also see settling as someone who gives up so much of themselves to make the other person in the relationship happy.

BINGO!!!!!!

txaggirl91 wrote: unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there who are afraid of being alone and do not see their self worth unless they are in a relationship.

SO right.... My mother has been divorced since 1978. It was the 3rd time...she quit trying thank goodness. Her sister on the other hand is a mess. In 1991 her husband of 32 years left her for his secretary. Classic case of.... she got the royal shaft after all those years of devotion. (Well she thinks that anyway... I think it didnt happen over night.... )

But what's worse is she hasnt been w/o a man since. She married or lived with 3 of them since then..... and they have all died on her. That happens when you are in your senior years..... But one dies and she goes and finds another.... she cannot stand to be alone and she self admittedly says she needs a man to take care of and be whole.

Mother and I think she is nutts. She thinks it normal. Who am I to judge her?

SMLCHNG wrote:

Brown Eyed Girl wrote: Those who worry too much about outward appearances and what others will think are destined to be unhappy, whether they are with someone or alone.....IMHO.

And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Yep, and Yep, and YEP!

i guess thats why i'm single...i haven't settled!!!........and as for sex and the city....i love Kim Cartrel!!!!

BINGO??? I love BINGO!!! If there's BINGO I am soooo totally in!!

Brown Eyed Girl wrote: And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Oh sh!t, it's not?

buffettbride wrote:BINGO??? I love BINGO!!! If there's BINGO I am soooo totally in!!

We're playing Canasta later. Tea and lady fingers for those who can stay awake.

buffettbride wrote:

Brown Eyed Girl wrote: And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Oh sh!t, it's not?

I know...now they tell me... and I bought all the damn DVDs

Brown Eyed Girl wrote:Seminolegrl, no one accused you of settling...you might want to read back. YOU are the one who brought up the height issue, which makes it look like you have an issue with it. No one here certainly does. Hell, my best friend is 5'9", her husband is my height, 5'4". She's caucasian, he's filipino. Yeah, they kinda look like Mutt and Jeff when you see them. Did either of them settle? Hell no, I couldn't have picked a better match for each other if I tried.

Those who worry too much about outward appearances and what others will think are destined to be unhappy, whether they are with someone or alone.....IMHO.

And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Very very true Kat!


and that's like getting medical advice from watching ER!

SMLCHNG wrote:

buffettbride wrote:BINGO??? I love BINGO!!! If there's BINGO I am soooo totally in!!

We're playing Canasta later. Tea and lady fingers for those who can stay awake.

You mean, like past 8pm?

TommyBahama wrote:

SMLCHNG wrote:

Brown Eyed Girl wrote: Those who worry too much about outward appearances and what others will think are destined to be unhappy, whether they are with someone or alone.....IMHO.

And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Yep, and Yep, and YEP!

i guess thats why i'm single...i haven't settled!!!........and as for sex and the city....i love Kim Cartrel!!!!

she's naughty....I like her, too.

ToplessRideFL wrote:

buffettbride wrote:

Brown Eyed Girl wrote: And maybe it's just me, but I'm not sure that Sex and the City is the best place to get relationship advice.

Oh sh!t, it's not?

I know...now they tell me... and I bought all the damn DVDs

I have season 1 and 2 and watch the reruns religiously.

I still don't know if she ends up with Mr. Big or the Russian.


AND DON'T TELL ME DAMMIT!!

pbans wrote:and I'll just leave the rest to Ron..............

I don't really have anything to add at this point. I think I'll just sit over here with Larry and watch.

LIPH wrote:This could get interesting. Maybe I'll just pull up a chair and observe.

Another beer amigo?

buffettbride wrote:

SMLCHNG wrote:

buffettbride wrote:BINGO??? I love BINGO!!! If there's BINGO I am soooo totally in!!

We're playing Canasta later. Tea and lady fingers for those who can stay awake.

You mean, like past 8pm?

Let's go wild and shoot for 8:30.

SMLCHNG wrote:

buffettbride wrote:

SMLCHNG wrote:

buffettbride wrote:BINGO??? I love BINGO!!! If there's BINGO I am soooo totally in!!

We're playing Canasta later. Tea and lady fingers for those who can stay awake.

You mean, like past 8pm?

Let's go wild and shoot for 8:30.

We're party animals.

pbans wrote: she's naughty....I like her, too.

Love her.. and the show... And I soooo don't own that many pair of shoes!!

buffettbride wrote: AND DON'T TELL ME DAMMIT!!

You won't hear it from me!!

SMLCHNG wrote:

pbans wrote: she's naughty....I like her, too.

Love her.. and the show... And I soooo don't own that many pair of shoes!!

i do....

SMLCHNG wrote:

buffettbride wrote:

SMLCHNG wrote:

buffettbride wrote:BINGO??? I love BINGO!!! If there's BINGO I am soooo totally in!!

We're playing Canasta later. Tea and lady fingers for those who can stay awake.

You mean, like past 8pm?

Let's go wild and shoot for 8:30.

eastern right?