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mmmmmmm.......Brown Eyed Girl wrote:ph4ever wrote:why am I all of a sudden thinking...........
SHRIMP
Hmmm, I have some in the freezer and I make a killer stir fry...come on down! And bring your scuba gear.
Oh, and I did mean the Jack ball jack and not Sybil...no worries there!
Brown Eyed Girl wrote:ph4ever wrote:why am I all of a sudden thinking...........
SHRIMP
Hmmm, I have some in the freezer and I make a killer stir fry...come on down! And bring your scuba gear.
Oh, and I did mean the Jack ball jack and not Sybil...no worries there!
"While the rest of the species is descended from apes, redheads are descended from cats." Mark TwainElrod wrote:Breakfast in the Texas Stadium Skybox bar in concourse C at DFW. May 31, 2003.ph4ever wrote:why am I all of a sudden thinking...........
SHRIMP
Thanks for the inspiration Scubagal!
Mmmm... Good!
"While the rest of the species is descended from apes, redheads are descended from cats." Mark TwainLightning Bolt wrote:mmmmflipflopgirl wrote:Elrod wrote:Dinner the same night Buffalo Shrimp!
Thanks Scubagal!
YUMMMMMMMMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm thinking KABOBS!!!
"While the rest of the species is descended from apes, redheads are descended from cats." Mark TwainThanks Mo! I wonder how long it will take me to get up there Sunday!mommar wrote:I'll start thawing it for you nowflipflopgirl wrote:You people are killing me!mommar wrote:I had grilled shrimp tonite
"While the rest of the species is descended from apes, redheads are descended from cats." Mark TwainOK first of all this may be hard for some of the pholks who know meseminolegrl06 wrote:being supportive of when she calls you at 2 am crying is one thing. Pointing out that maybe there might be pattern is one thing. Telling her what to do is quite another.ph4ever wrote:
so if you've got a friend that's continually having relationships with married men and then is devastated when they don't leave their wives you're the type of friend that won't say squat. OK that's the way you are.
As far as me being blinded and jaded by my age - oh you poor thing, bless your heart.
Things are slightly different now a days. I know this situtaion where he did leave his wife. Actually two situations like that. So what am I supposed to tell my friends? it could never happen to them? Maybe this married guy "settled" (like you feel so many people are these days) and he likes my friend. Either way, if he is divorced and giving it a shot with her, who am I to tell her not to try to? I mean he gave up a lot because he felt it was something worth trying for.
But I should say children are not in the mix. (he did not have any yet)
I just have to say things are different now a days. There are girls who are "settle" for the MRS lifestyle.
Conolulu wrote:I have soooooooo stayed out of this...
Change, is the only constant in life. And you will learn that as you get older....It's how you deal with it, that tells what you are made of.....People don't change
So I guess you are the lecturer friend who no one really talks to anymore because you are so disapproving. Thats ok be a friend like that.
This time you're really wrong..and just don't know what you are talking about........Connie has been there for me sooooo many times. To listen...to let me b i t c h. To relate when I've screwed up....To be supportive when I've needed it the most, and to help me see some of the things I CAN change when it's needed. She has gone thru her own hell, and a lot of us know about it, as she comes here to get the support....and yet, she can still be there for any, and all, of us...and also laugh. A lot......If you think she is the friend no one really talks to? You are sadly mistaken.
So many of the women on this board, and the guys, all support one another....sure, there may be a lecturer or two....Most of them don't stay long.....but I have never met kinder, more caring people anywhere...
Stick around, and you'll see that....We're more than an internet board here....We're friends, and family.....We've been there when babies were born....when one of ours is sick or needs help....when one of ours is getting married halfway across the country , and people fly in for the wedding....When one throws a party in Florida, and 15 states are represented.....
and I could go on and on....
The people on here...They have gotten me thru so many things...they are inclusive, not exclusive.....
All people have done is state their opinion....that's what we do. It may not always be popular, but it's honest and how we feel.
* stepping off soapbox *
and thanks for all the phone calls and listening and great times and laughter! "CB" and here's to more great times to come! CHEERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love ya! "While the rest of the species is descended from apes, redheads are descended from cats." Mark TwainSame here except I found out pretty quick, didn't want to kill her, just wanted out NOW. Totally sucks, that stuff screws with your head, had to do a LOT of sailing to get that one out of my head, I just can't imagine someone doing that to their "partner"...if ya want to screw around, talk to your partner and go get a friggin divorce!ragtopW wrote:OK first of all this may be hard for some of the pholks who know meseminolegrl06 wrote:being supportive of when she calls you at 2 am crying is one thing. Pointing out that maybe there might be pattern is one thing. Telling her what to do is quite another.ph4ever wrote:
so if you've got a friend that's continually having relationships with married men and then is devastated when they don't leave their wives you're the type of friend that won't say squat. OK that's the way you are.
As far as me being blinded and jaded by my age - oh you poor thing, bless your heart.
Things are slightly different now a days. I know this situtaion where he did leave his wife. Actually two situations like that. So what am I supposed to tell my friends? it could never happen to them? Maybe this married guy "settled" (like you feel so many people are these days) and he likes my friend. Either way, if he is divorced and giving it a shot with her, who am I to tell her not to try to? I mean he gave up a lot because he felt it was something worth trying for.
But I should say children are not in the mix. (he did not have any yet)
I just have to say things are different now a days. There are girls who are "settle" for the MRS lifestyle.
around here, to believe but I want to comment..
as a guy whose wife cheated on Him, I want to chat about that for just a minute.
We had no kids.. I did not find out for
years that she had cheated.. I can tell you this.
if I had caught my ex wife in bed with another person
I would have killed both of them..
sorry, no drama zone here.You are assuming I haven't lived any life at least by the questions that are supposed to make you superior to me.ph4ever wrote:seminolegrl06 wrote:being supportive of when she calls you at 2 am crying is one thing. Pointing out that maybe there might be pattern is one thing. Telling her what to do is quite another.ph4ever wrote:
so if you've got a friend that's continually having relationships with married men and then is devastated when they don't leave their wives you're the type of friend that won't say squat. OK that's the way you are.
As far as me being blinded and jaded by my age - oh you poor thing, bless your heart.
Things are slightly different now a days. I know this situtaion where he did leave his wife. Actually two situations like that. So what am I supposed to tell my friends? it could never happen to them? Maybe this married guy "settled" (like you feel so many people are these days) and he likes my friend. Either way, if he is divorced and giving it a shot with her, who am I to tell her not to try to? I mean he gave up a lot because he felt it was something worth trying for.
But I should say children are not in the mix. (he did not have any yet)
I just have to say things are different now a days. There are girls who are "settle" for the MRS lifestyle.
I will always be supportive of my firends. Friends are the family you choose. But I am not their mother, it is not my job to tell them what to do or scold them for doing something I wouldn't do.
like I said, years have not jaded me. Casual relationships, casual sex, its amazing to get a guy to stop sleeping around. And unlike the past its out there in the open. So a girl find a guy that just wants to stop for a moment and hangout with them, they want to figure out why. He may not be perfect, but he wants to give her an earnest chance why not go for it?
Jumping from relationship to relationship has its benefits, sometimes you figure out what you don't want from people.
I have the chronic relationship friend. I really do. But there is nothing to say to her. She admits that she needs to be in a relationship. So the only thing left for me to do, is love her for who she is because thats what she does for me.
People don't change. Either love them for who they are and have them in your life (friends, guy friends, or boyfriends and husbands) or be done with them. You cannot teach someone your "mistakes" and sometimes people need their own learning process to figure it out.
So I guess you are the lecturer friend who no one really talks to anymore because you are so disapproving. Thats ok be a friend like that.
how sad that you are so narrow minded and such an authority on life at such a young age
Tell me - how many friends have you burried? two, although technically one died in iraq.Ever hugged a friend dieing of AIDS goodbye telling him he shouldn't be sorry for his lifestyle? no and that's the last time you talk cause they die? well since the above question is no, than i guess this one has to be as well.Ever had a friend commit suicide? yes.
Ever have a friend murdered? not a close one.
Ever even work with people with a terminal disease, or the homeless? the later.Do you still have parents alive? fortunatly yes, but they are both 49, generally, barring something tragic they are in good health. So I am thankful for that.have you lost your child? depends on how you want to classify that.
I'm glad you found a great woman this time.....and Santa....Mrs. Santa is out there, too!Ambition At Bay wrote:Same here except I found out pretty quick, didn't want to kill her, just wanted out NOW. Totally sucks, that stuff screws with your head, had to do a LOT of sailing to get that one out of my head, I just can't imagine someone doing that to their "partner"...if ya want to screw around, talk to your partner and go get a friggin divorce!ragtopW wrote:OK first of all this may be hard for some of the pholks who know meseminolegrl06 wrote:being supportive of when she calls you at 2 am crying is one thing. Pointing out that maybe there might be pattern is one thing. Telling her what to do is quite another.ph4ever wrote:
so if you've got a friend that's continually having relationships with married men and then is devastated when they don't leave their wives you're the type of friend that won't say squat. OK that's the way you are.
As far as me being blinded and jaded by my age - oh you poor thing, bless your heart.
Things are slightly different now a days. I know this situtaion where he did leave his wife. Actually two situations like that. So what am I supposed to tell my friends? it could never happen to them? Maybe this married guy "settled" (like you feel so many people are these days) and he likes my friend. Either way, if he is divorced and giving it a shot with her, who am I to tell her not to try to? I mean he gave up a lot because he felt it was something worth trying for.
But I should say children are not in the mix. (he did not have any yet)
I just have to say things are different now a days. There are girls who are "settle" for the MRS lifestyle.
around here, to believe but I want to comment..
as a guy whose wife cheated on Him, I want to chat about that for just a minute.
We had no kids.. I did not find out for
years that she had cheated.. I can tell you this.
if I had caught my ex wife in bed with another person
I would have killed both of them..
Try to justify it all ya want...there are NO excuses, doin' it "for the kids", "I was drunk", "my situation is too complicated", blah, blah, blah...IMHO, its black and white, either you want this or you want that...get your butt down the friggin' road! Well I divorced her a$$ right after that, that was 11 years ago, still single thank you very much
On a side note; over the past 11 years its amazing the number of married women I've run into that want to fool around (before you start typing, yes I know men do it as well, just not his one) on the side, what a bunch of crap AND can you imagine the drama with situation like that
pbans wrote:I'm glad you found a great woman this time.....and Santa....Mrs. Santa is out there, too!Ambition At Bay wrote:Same here except I found out pretty quick, didn't want to kill her, just wanted out NOW. Totally sucks, that stuff screws with your head, had to do a LOT of sailing to get that one out of my head, I just can't imagine someone doing that to their "partner"...if ya want to screw around, talk to your partner and go get a friggin divorce!ragtopW wrote:OK first of all this may be hard for some of the pholks who know meseminolegrl06 wrote:being supportive of when she calls you at 2 am crying is one thing. Pointing out that maybe there might be pattern is one thing. Telling her what to do is quite another.ph4ever wrote:
so if you've got a friend that's continually having relationships with married men and then is devastated when they don't leave their wives you're the type of friend that won't say squat. OK that's the way you are.
As far as me being blinded and jaded by my age - oh you poor thing, bless your heart.
Things are slightly different now a days. I know this situtaion where he did leave his wife. Actually two situations like that. So what am I supposed to tell my friends? it could never happen to them? Maybe this married guy "settled" (like you feel so many people are these days) and he likes my friend. Either way, if he is divorced and giving it a shot with her, who am I to tell her not to try to? I mean he gave up a lot because he felt it was something worth trying for.
But I should say children are not in the mix. (he did not have any yet)
I just have to say things are different now a days. There are girls who are "settle" for the MRS lifestyle.
around here, to believe but I want to comment..
as a guy whose wife cheated on Him, I want to chat about that for just a minute.
We had no kids.. I did not find out for
years that she had cheated.. I can tell you this.
if I had caught my ex wife in bed with another person
I would have killed both of them..
Try to justify it all ya want...there are NO excuses, doin' it "for the kids", "I was drunk", "my situation is too complicated", blah, blah, blah...IMHO, its black and white, either you want this or you want that...get your butt down the friggin' road! Well I divorced her a$$ right after that, that was 11 years ago, still single thank you very much
On a side note; over the past 11 years its amazing the number of married women I've run into that want to fool around (before you start typing, yes I know men do it as well, just not his one) on the side, what a bunch of crap AND can you imagine the drama with situation like that
I can't even imagine doing that to my husband.....23 years later, I'm still a one man woman!
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