My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan

[SeaNile]

Right around Christmas my father, 70, passed away. We had a million great times together and he was the one who introduced me to Jimmy's music from a pretty early age. I always knew he liked Jimmy's music but didn't realize just how much till it was time to help my Mom clean out the house. I guess the cd with 125+ songs of all Jimmy which we played on our fishing trips should have given me a clue. The night he passed as the entire family was gathered at the house we decided to go into his office and gather some of his CD's a listen to them. I was certain to find Ella Fitzgerald, Frank but was shocked to see how many Buffett CD's where in there. So there is the family trying to have a mournful evening but all we could find was Buffett CD's. It was great. Certainly brought back a lot of memories. Then the following week it's time to clean out the house and again was surprised to see how many concert T shirts he had in his closet. I didn't realize he was going to Buffett concerts all these years. I will never forget the one show in Camden with my now wife and Dad, it was the first time I heard Jimmy's version of Southern Cross. it's something I will never forget.

Like a true sailor my Dad's wishes were to be spread out at sea. The family agrees a Buffett playlist needs to be made for the voyage. Southern Cross and It's Been a Lovely Cruise will for sure be on the list. It'll be a somber day for sure when the weather breaks, the family gathers, the diesel engines fire up and "It's Been a Lovely Cruise" is on the stereo. Our boat was his pride and joy and I can think of nothing more fitting then him going on this one last trip.

The circle of life is amazing. My 4 year old absolutely loves Jimmy and it is comforting to see how some things are passed on from generation to generation.

--JK
www.seanile31.com

[dnw]

Sail on, SeaNile's father.


(((((((SeaNile)))))))

[tikitatas]

Sail on, fellow phan . . .

And may your family always feel his spirit in the music!

[phjrsaunt]

Your dad was a good guy. I know what you mean about the circle of life. Thoughts are with you.

[rich_big]

sail on, dad.

[citcat]

Sail on, SeaNile's dad. Another Parrothead for Heaven !!!

[Karacal]

(((((SeaNile and family))))))

So sorry to hear of your loss...

May your wonderful memories give you much comfort....

[Conolulu]

Thank you for sharing your Dad with us, SeaNile...

Sail on SeaNile's Dad......God Speed, and we'll meet one day...

[fruityparrothead]

Sail on PHan.....

[moeron]

Sail On. My Dad has been gone since 1996. Every time I hear Country & Western music I think of both my Mon and Dad.

[LIBuffettFan]

Sail On SeaNile's Dad. My thoughts are with you and yours.

[Couganata]

God bless him and your family my friend.

[luvinlife]

Sail On Sir! May God hold you in the palm of his hands!!!!

[luvinlife]

Sail On Sir! May God hold you in the palm of his hands!!!!

[flipflopgirl]

So sorry for your loss!!! (((((((((((((((((((Seanile and family)))))))))))))))))) many thought and prayers for you all.

Sail on Sir!

[Dezdmona]

What an inspiring story. Your Dad would be proud.
Sail on fine sir.

[TSU86]

Bless you and your entire family.

I've never had the experience of spreading a loved ones ashes, but I think since there will be some time between his death, and the cruise, perhaps it won't be somber. Perhaps it will be a beautiful day of celebration, spent on board your dad's boat.

[Finnsaremorefun]

Peace be with you all

[GumboPirate]

Sail on...my condolences to you and yours...

Now you have your own pirate in the sky to watch over you all

[Bfan53again]

Prayers to the family and thanks for sharing..........

God Bless