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Posted: May 11, 2004 1:23 pm
by Cubbie Bear
I had 4,000 kids in my high school and 806 in my graduating class. I told my wife if I could pick out 12 people i really wanted to see (other than hotties) we would go to my 25th reunion. Never made it past 9

Posted: May 11, 2004 1:25 pm
by MelliJellyBean
Cubbie Bear wrote:I had 4,000 kids in my high school and 806 in my graduating class. I told my wife if I could pick out 12 people i really wanted to see (other than hotties) we would go to my 25th reunion. Never made it past 9
Yikes! What's sad is I had 170 kids in my high school and 35 in my graduating class. I only talk to one of them now. :(

Posted: May 13, 2004 1:27 am
by MelliJellyBean
well its down to two more days. I'm warming up to the idea of visiting and taking my dog to NC sometime this summer.

I'm in my denial phase

Posted: May 13, 2004 3:09 am
by phwtb
MelliJellyBean wrote:
CRC Parrothead wrote:Don't be mad! Sometimes when you gotta go, you just gotta go! :wink:
i know! and that's why i feel so bad. I"m only thinking about how I feel. He's moving to NC to be with another friend....not going for anything like a job or school...just getting away. He kept leading me to believe he may be here longer...like at least until the end of the month. I went away this weekend and I find out my "friends" had a going away party for him last night and he's leaving Friday. I"m so disappointed.
In my best motherly voice, Melli don't dwell on the bad times or the hurt. Be happy in knowing the good memories will last forever. It is true what people say about a friendship being a reason, a season, or a lifetime...

Live well in your tomorrows and remember true your past....

Cheer up... you KNOW planes go both directions...

Posted: May 13, 2004 8:59 am
by Cubbie Bear
In my best Pumba voice, "Its time to put your behind past you"

Posted: May 14, 2004 1:00 pm
by bumper
I am a sap for a good story Cubbie, enjoyed your openess in how life has worked and not worked for you. Reminds how tough it can be sometimes when we get comfortable, adjusted and something comes along to throw a wrench in our plans.

Millie, you will in the long run be phine, time is on your side and let this experience wash over you, understand it and accept it eventually for what it is. Trust me, you will get to a place of understanding. :D :D

We have been fairly stable here for many years, though I would like to move, wifeo has strong ties to the area, I respect that, but recently, our Survivor night buddies(her best friend) for 6 seasons, moved farther west making our once a week get togethers impossible. A very good phriend of mine is moving today far enough away that we will not see each as we have. The idea of him being "down the street" no longer applies.. My son is leaving Sunday for Phoenix. My urge to bail out is as strong as it has ever been. So Millie, following my own advice, I will let this wash over me, be greatful and hold dear what was and look forward to what will be. :D, well not really, I am p*** but it will pass

Posted: May 14, 2004 8:25 pm
by Cubbie Bear
AThanks bump...my instincts have been head for FLA for quite some time. My Mom and Dad are both 85 and failing. Nothing or nobody I would miss here. so what did I do, bought a house here, because its right for everyone else.

If this were "Casablanca" I would be Rick and let Ilsa get on the plan with Victor

Posted: May 15, 2004 12:07 am
by MelliJellyBean
I know I'll get over, but it's not like I've gotten to spendmuch time with him.

And tonight, its midnight and he hasn't returned my messages...and didn't bother to call

Is he being a typical jerk guy and avoiding me and the situation?


:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Posted: May 15, 2004 10:39 am
by longlinergirl
MelliJellyBean wrote:I know I'll get over, but it's not like I've gotten to spendmuch time with him.

And tonight, its midnight and he hasn't returned my messages...and didn't bother to call

Is he being a typical jerk guy and avoiding me and the situation?


:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Didn't he just move far away? Maybe he is busy or tired....

Posted: May 15, 2004 10:40 am
by MelliJellyBean
longlinergirl wrote:
MelliJellyBean wrote:I know I'll get over, but it's not like I've gotten to spendmuch time with him.

And tonight, its midnight and he hasn't returned my messages...and didn't bother to call

Is he being a typical jerk guy and avoiding me and the situation?


:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Didn't he just move far away? Maybe he is busy or tired....
ya well he is busy and tired, but still...at least return my phone calls. I've left several.

I'm just giving up for right now.

Posted: May 21, 2004 7:46 pm
by margaritagrl26
MelliJellyBean wrote:
longlinergirl wrote:
MelliJellyBean wrote:I know I'll get over, but it's not like I've gotten to spendmuch time with him.

And tonight, its midnight and he hasn't returned my messages...and didn't bother to call

Is he being a typical jerk guy and avoiding me and the situation?


:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Didn't he just move far away? Maybe he is busy or tired....
ya well he is busy and tired, but still...at least return my phone calls. I've left several.

I'm just giving up for right now.

I'd say just relax and give him some time to get situated/adjusted.

Just found out today that my best friend is moving to Japan come July. :(

Posted: May 23, 2004 9:45 pm
by MelliJellyBean
margaritagrl26 wrote:
MelliJellyBean wrote:
longlinergirl wrote:
MelliJellyBean wrote:I know I'll get over, but it's not like I've gotten to spendmuch time with him.

And tonight, its midnight and he hasn't returned my messages...and didn't bother to call

Is he being a typical jerk guy and avoiding me and the situation?


:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Didn't he just move far away? Maybe he is busy or tired....
ya well he is busy and tired, but still...at least return my phone calls. I've left several.

I'm just giving up for right now.

I'd say just relax and give him some time to get situated/adjusted.

Just found out today that my best friend is moving to Japan come July. :(
its been over a week and still no sign of my friend josh. I dont know what I did to make him not want to call me back?

I just feel really lonely right now...I still have my boyfriend and he is like a best friend...but I dont feel like I have any other friend that I can call up and say ..hey just wanna hang out and do nothing?



I guess im down in the dumps and its going to take time. I hope i meet a new friend soon. :(

Posted: May 24, 2004 6:14 pm
by ohmyhell
makes me sad when best friends move! one of my best friends moved to denver 8 months ago and then i moved away to san diego 5 months ago. however, 1 week ago we got together and went to jimmy buffett in denver. it really makes you appreciate good friends when you realize how much fun you have together even though the time together doesnt happen as often as you'd like. i think we should all take our best friends to their first jimmy buffett concerts. that's what i did last week.

Posted: May 25, 2004 12:04 am
by Gypsy In The Palace
To quote Yogi Berra: We have a good time together, even when we're not together.