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iuparrothead wrote:Love? What's love? Never felt it... well, besides with my family and friends of course.

On a side note... I might be getting married to a Serbian sometime soon so he doesn't get deported.

IS THAT WHY YOU SAID NO TO ME?YOU'RE SEEING SOMEONE ELSE?

rednekkPH wrote:

LIPH wrote:

rednekkPH wrote:

OceanCityGirl wrote:by the way, chicks love a good sob story told by a guy who's had his heart broken.

That's because chicks love seeing men miserable.

No, they just love making us miserable.

I think we're both right. They enjoy their work, and then enjoy sitting back and looking at the result.

One of my ex's (you may have heard of her, she goes by Satan) called me at the beginning of finals week my sophomore year of college and told me she was pregnant. She then dumped me right after I was done finals and told me she was just making the story up to screw with me and ruin my concentration.

However, the joke was on her 'cause I never studied for a test in my life anyway

well that's pretty rotten

tommcat327 wrote:

iuparrothead wrote:Love? What's love? Never felt it... well, besides with my family and friends of course.

On a side note... I might be getting married to a Serbian sometime soon so he doesn't get deported.

IS THAT WHY YOU SAID NO TO ME?YOU'RE SEEING SOMEONE ELSE?

I wouldn't necessarily call it "seeing someone"... he's my pal, and I would never let him get deported back to Bosnia... unfortunately for me, since I'm desperately in love with his little brother, I might have to find someone else to marry him, so I can save the little brother from deportation!

iuparrothead wrote:I wouldn't necessarily call it "seeing someone"

No, "Immigration Fraud" would be a more fitting description.

rednekkPH wrote:

iuparrothead wrote:I wouldn't necessarily call it "seeing someone"

No, "Immigration Fraud" would be a more fitting description.

Awww... come on man! Lighten up!

Seriously... I'm just kidding. I'm not going to marry him...at least I don't think so!!! (I would be willing to marry the little brother... )

iuparrothead wrote:

rednekkPH wrote:

iuparrothead wrote:I wouldn't necessarily call it "seeing someone"

No, "Immigration Fraud" would be a more fitting description.

Awww... come on man! Lighten up!

Seriously... I'm just kidding. I'm not going to marry him...at least I don't think so!!! (I would be willing to marry the little brother... )

Well, be prepared to stay married for at least 3 years and be able to pass a "relationship interview" if you try it...otherwise it's pack-em-up and ship-em-back.

rednekkPH wrote:

iuparrothead wrote:

rednekkPH wrote:

iuparrothead wrote:I wouldn't necessarily call it "seeing someone"

No, "Immigration Fraud" would be a more fitting description.

Awww... come on man! Lighten up!

Seriously... I'm just kidding. I'm not going to marry him...at least I don't think so!!! (I would be willing to marry the little brother... )

Well, be prepared to stay married for at least 3 years and be able to pass a "relationship interview" if you try it...otherwise it's pack-em-up and ship-em-back.

Nice thing about the 3 year deal is that if you decide to end it .... he gets shipped back and you don't have to deal with running across him 'around' town'.

tgr8one wrote:Have you ever loved someone so much that they could really do no wrong and you'd do pretty much anything for that person?
What are some of those things that have been "accepted" because of the way ya'll felt?
Just wanting some input from the PHlock is all..

Hmmm... lemme think --- uhhhhhh, NO

I however did love my daughters enough to put up with my ex-wifes s*** until she decided to take it upon herself to leave...

Speaking of ex's... did someone mention a hitman for hire??
save me a hell of a lot of money compared to a lawyer, no offense Larry

semitruths wrote:Nice thing about the 3 year deal is that if you decide to end it .... he gets shipped back and you don't have to deal with running across him 'around' town'.

One other sidenote... back on subject here

Take it from me dude.... if you're having to "put up" with anything out of the person
Then it's most likely NEVER meant to be "the one" anyway...
my suggestion: take 2 cases of beer and a chic at the bar AND DONT call her back the next morning --- it'll make ya feel better

I was willing to overlook the fact that I wasn't even sharing a continent with the guy (Army). Matt totally ripped my heart out a few months ago. I bought the plane ticket to go visit him in Ireland one Thursday, and he totally dumped me the following Sunday.

And that totally sucked, but if he hadn't, I wouldn't have been able to accept my new job (and even though it keeps me away from BN, I still love it). And I desperately needed to get out of my last job before I went nuts. That's kept me from being down about it now that I'm sure it's done.

But f%$^ing my ex made me feel a whole lot better about it short term.

(And Rednekk and Larry, if we don't make you miserable then we don't get to put you in a good mood later!)

I SWEAR the song "Souviners" was written for somebody who was a MAJOR part of my life for 14 years ("I wanted more than one 'till I found the one I wanted") ("I still go to pieces, but I don't go as often-her memory's a ghost now, though I'm still pretty haunted").
Yes, I overlooked a lot in the beginning, and as the years went by and my feelings remained the same I just couldn't get her to feel the way I did until it was too late.
It's been seven years since I saw her last, and over two years since I've even heard the sound of her voice, and yes, it still hurts, but life has been pretty damn good to me-I have my health, a gorgeous home, a job I love, a teriffic wife, two healthy parents in their late 70's, and two of the most beautiful and loving dogs on the planet.
Yeah-I spend too much time thinking of what might have been, especially when I hear an old Barry Manilow song called "Even Now."
But if I'm not totally ecstatic with life these days, I'm certainly content and definately realize I do have a lot of postives going for me. It's all good.
You just hang in there, keep the faith, believe in yourself, count your blessings, and cherish everything positive.
I promise you'll be fine.

iuparrothead wrote:Love? What's love? Never felt it... well, besides with my family and friends of course.

On a side note... I might be getting married to a Serbian sometime soon so he doesn't get deported.

I stepped back and deleted my original post, but still believe you would be making a huge mistake to marry ANYONE for any reason other than "I can not and do not want to live the rest of my life without (insert love-of-my-life-name's here).

What you are considering is wrong. You are probably young (ok, I'm guessing here), and feel very strongly. Sadly, sometimes our strongest feelings are wrong. And illegal. And we get over them later in life. And then we miss those strong feelings and end up confused confused hippie Republicans. It's so sad.

Okay well that helped.
Last night was a drunken evening and I thank ya'll for listening and telling me your stuff.
For those I meet in San Diego,
FIRST SHOT'S ON ME!!

OceanCityGirl wrote:by the way, chicks love a good sob story told by a guy who's had his heart broken. Have a beer or two, tell the story to the cute girls sitting around you. Guarantee you'll feel better.

That's just really too bad that you're in the wrong Ocean City, no wait that's Oceanside CA, I'd buy you that beer

Ummmmm.......no. Never been there.

Wino you know wrote:You just hang in there, keep the faith, believe in yourself, count your blessings, and cherish everything positive.
I promise you'll be fine.

good advice,i'd still hire a hitman to prevent any future problems

Love is not perfect. It most definitely has it's ups and downs. Hmmm.. Just like life!

There are those we might regret losing. But if they were "the one"? They relationship probably would have lasted, IMHO.

Love feels grand when things are going well. And it hurts a lot when it's not.

You might find that love that lasts forever, or the love that just brings you happiness for a short time. Some people may never find that love at all.

So be grateful that you've shared your life and heart with someone. Time for move on to the next step in life.

Coconuts wrote:I was willing to overlook the fact that I wasn't even sharing a continent with the guy (Army). Matt totally ripped my heart out a few months ago. I bought the plane ticket to go visit him in Ireland one Thursday, and he totally dumped me the following Sunday.

Must be something about Army guys .... mine was army ....

I advised my daughter a couple weeks ago .... find yourself a best friend ... then fall in love with him ... then marry him. (It will also help if I think he's good enough for my baby girl .. )

Write down all of your feelings at this tough time........ You may get a song out of it and at the same time venting as well........