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semitruths wrote:I advised my daughter a couple weeks ago .... find yourself a best friend ... then fall in love with him ... then marry him. (It will also help if I think he's good enough for my baby girl .. )

Yah that last part's gonna happen

IsleReef wrote:Write down all of your feelings at this tough time........ You may get a song out of it and at the same time venting as well........

I'll second that... I've written A LOT of songs over these past 10 months
Some may end up played in public one day, others are for my own purposes
Either way, it helped me vent my various emotions ranging from depressed, hurt and confused - to angery vengence

Helplessly hoping......

He runs wishing he could fly, only to trip at the sound of good-bye...........

They are one person, they are two alone.........they are three together....they are four each other......

Way back long ago in the college years, had a girlfriend who was going to a school about 70 miles away. At the end of her freshman year, she asked me to come and help her move all her stuff back home for the summer. No problem. After spending all day driving there, up and down all morning 2 flights of stairs packing the car and driving back, she breaks up with me upon getting back to her parents house.

I knew she hadn't had much experience at this, on account of her timing. She told me this BEFORE I unpacked here crap out of my car. Since I still had her dorm key in my ashtray, I got in my car and drove all her crap back to her school and took it all up to her room. I obviously now had alot more free time than I did that morning! I wan't p*** at her breaking up with me, if she's not happy, she's not happy. But her totally using me like that was way out of line.


Now days, I feel much better after I dispose the body in the Everglades. Nothing like a good day out in the wilderness with fresh air and a shovel.

Just kidding!!!! Way too much of that crap in the news these days for that to be funny.

mermaidindisguise wrote:Well.. I excused the drinking and the gambling..... but when he started bringing the bodies home - I just had to draw the line....


ok - a little humor for those hurting now (sorry)
Where is CMT's top 40 You Done me Wrong Songs when you need them......it's actually pretty funny - and another plug for my cousin Suzanne bc she is one of the comediennes making fun of the songs.

Truthfully..... I never loved my first husband the way I was supposed to and now that I have met someone who I feel was meant for me - so far so good - but some things had to be overlooked - won't lie. It's amazing what love makes you do and it's great that you can forgive - just has to be the right kind of forgiveness and for things that are worth forgiving.

Meg - again...we have way too much in common....we need to talk again soon.....

I am currently in a relationship that we both have that feeling of doing anything for the other...it is a great feeling and it really did come unexpectedly and under a pretty inconvienent situation, but it is worth it....it just goes to show you that your soul mate can be anywhere, just waiting to meet you....just remain open and true to yourself....that way, if you do find someone, you will be able to see if it is true or not in a very short time....

chalksoperations wrote:

Now days, I feel much better after I dispose the body in the Everglades. Nothing like a good day out in the wilderness with fresh air and a shovel.

Just kidding!!!! Way too much of that crap in the news these days for that to be funny.

are you kidding?thats always funny

SMLCHNG wrote:Love is not perfect. It most definitely has it's ups and downs. Hmmm.. Just like life!

There are those we might regret losing. But if they were "the one"? They relationship probably would have lasted, IMHO.

Love feels grand when things are going well. And it hurts a lot when it's not.

You might find that love that lasts forever, or the love that just brings you happiness for a short time. Some people may never find that love at all.

So be grateful that you've shared your life and heart with someone. Time for move on to the next step in life.

Pretty sure I couldnt of said it better myself.....

Sometimes you can have the most "perfect" relationship with someone and there will always be things that can get in the way. So I say "Cherish" it while you have it, and if for some reason you have to let it go, Hold on to the "souveniers" it brought you while it was there. Those people will NEVER leave your heart completely. And I have a motto..."things happen for a reason", and most times it's true. So dont be afaid to share your heart again, one day it might be the right time, and it could be Forever.

Love stinks (to quote a song)

I wish I was Vulcan

you should do what i did.get a job as a DJ at a strip club and surround yourself with nekkid women and booze everyday

chalksoperations wrote:Way back long ago in the college years, had a girlfriend who was going to a school about 70 miles away. At the end of her freshman year, she asked me to come and help her move all her stuff back home for the summer. No problem. After spending all day driving there, up and down all morning 2 flights of stairs packing the car and driving back, she breaks up with me upon getting back to her parents house.

I knew she hadn't had much experience at this, on account of her timing. She told me this BEFORE I unpacked here crap out of my car. Since I still had her dorm key in my ashtray, I got in my car and drove all her crap back to her school and took it all up to her room. I obviously now had alot more free time than I did that morning! I wan't p*** at her breaking up with me, if she's not happy, she's not happy. But her totally using me like that was way out of line.


Now days, I feel much better after I dispose the body in the Everglades. Nothing like a good day out in the wilderness with fresh air and a shovel.

Just kidding!!!! Way too much of that crap in the news these days for that to be funny.

You are a lot nicer than I would be in that situation. She certainly would have been waving "bye-bye" to her stuff.. but the Goodwill would have gotten it, and I'd be sitting in my car with a receipt for a tax-writeoff for the donation.

"not happy? I got just the thing to perk you up sweetikins... a big-ol shoppin' trip to the Mall."

tommcat327 wrote:you should do what i did.get a job as a DJ at a strip club and surround yourself with nekkid women and booze everyday

I can see this helping facilitate a healthy respect for women and a means to view them non-objectively...

semitruths wrote:I advised my daughter a couple weeks ago .... find yourself a best friend ... then fall in love with him ... then marry him. (It will also help if I think he's good enough for my baby girl .. )

I have to say you probably gave your daughter the best advice. It's basically what i've told mine too. Some people wait a life time for that to happen, and get hurt in between, but hopefully our kids won't have that happen to them

parrotsgirl wrote:

semitruths wrote:I advised my daughter a couple weeks ago .... find yourself a best friend ... then fall in love with him ... then marry him. (It will also help if I think he's good enough for my baby girl .. )

I have to say you probably gave your daughter the best advice. It's basically what i've told mine too. Some people wait a life time for that to happen, and get hurt in between, but hopefully our kids won't have that happen to them

sure they will. It's part of life. You don't want it to happen; you want them to make it thru unscratched.

Who ever said baggage was bad? If you have baggage, it means you actually lived a little bit of life outside a bubble. It's what you do with that baggage that determines its good or bad nature.

Someone mentioned earlier that you have to open your heart, let yourself be open again. The hard part is finding the balance between just rushing headlong into the situation, and your baggage(experience) teaching you that caution saves heartbreak down the road.

parrotsgirl wrote:

semitruths wrote:I advised my daughter a couple weeks ago .... find yourself a best friend ... then fall in love with him ... then marry him. (It will also help if I think he's good enough for my baby girl .. )

I have to say you probably gave your daughter the best advice. It's basically what i've told mine too. Some people wait a life time for that to happen, and get hurt in between, but hopefully our kids won't have that happen to them

I have to disagree. I tried dating one of my best friends (we had a sitcom like will-they/won't they thing going for almost 4 years, and I still wouldn't absolutely swear that it's completely resolved), and as much as I love him, and have been in love with him over the years, we're just not right for one another. I know we'll always be friends, but we frankly don't have enough in common to be able to enjoy a relationship with one another as much as we would with someone we had more in common with.

HsvParrothead wrote:

IsleReef wrote:Write down all of your feelings at this tough time........ You may get a song out of it and at the same time venting as well........

I'll second that... I've written A LOT of songs over these past 10 months
Some may end up played in public one day, others are for my own purposes
Either way, it helped me vent my various emotions ranging from depressed, hurt and confused - to angery vengence

well, in CA, you can't post a picture of the ex on an adult chat webboard and write racy personal ads for it.

The courts there seem to take a dim view of that behaviour. Even if the breakup was over the fact you found her home alone with the entire troupe of circus midgets and a guy on stilts.

RinglingRingling wrote:

parrotsgirl wrote:

semitruths wrote:I advised my daughter a couple weeks ago .... find yourself a best friend ... then fall in love with him ... then marry him. (It will also help if I think he's good enough for my baby girl .. )

I have to say you probably gave your daughter the best advice. It's basically what i've told mine too. Some people wait a life time for that to happen, and get hurt in between, but hopefully our kids won't have that happen to them

sure they will. It's part of life. You don't want it to happen; you want them to make it thru unscratched.

Who ever said baggage was bad? If you have baggage, it means you actually lived a little bit of life outside a bubble. It's what you do with that baggage that determines its good or bad nature.

Someone mentioned earlier that you have to open your heart, let yourself be open again. The hard part is finding the balance between just rushing headlong into the situation, and your baggage(experience) teaching you that caution saves heartbreak down the road.

Oh I know that she will, as will my son, but it's also instinct to try and teach them from your mistakes as well. You're right about the baggage, everyone has it, if they lie and say they dont....well then they are only fooling themselves. You learn from some of those things we call "baggage"

and your right about it is nice if that experience teaches you to show a lil bit of caution the next time in. But I guess in life you learn things along the ways, what you thought was important once, might not be the next time. Sometimes you do have to trust your heart.

RinglingRingling wrote:

HsvParrothead wrote:

IsleReef wrote:Write down all of your feelings at this tough time........ You may get a song out of it and at the same time venting as well........

I'll second that... I've written A LOT of songs over these past 10 months
Some may end up played in public one day, others are for my own purposes
Either way, it helped me vent my various emotions ranging from depressed, hurt and confused - to angery vengence

well, in CA, you can't post a picture of the ex on an adult chat webboard and write racy personal ads for it.

The courts there seem to take a dim view of that behaviour. Even if the breakup was over the fact you found her home alone with the entire troupe of circus midgets and a guy on stilts.

I didnt have to post any for her... found her's that she posted on Match.com to use myself in court
Along with call records to her "friends" from her cell... ahhhh, "Detail Billing" --- God love it (doesnt take a genuis to figure out if her cell is in my company's name --- I can access anything from the account -- blondes )

HsvParrothead wrote:

RinglingRingling wrote:

HsvParrothead wrote:

IsleReef wrote:Write down all of your feelings at this tough time........ You may get a song out of it and at the same time venting as well........

I'll second that... I've written A LOT of songs over these past 10 months
Some may end up played in public one day, others are for my own purposes
Either way, it helped me vent my various emotions ranging from depressed, hurt and confused - to angery vengence

well, in CA, you can't post a picture of the ex on an adult chat webboard and write racy personal ads for it.

The courts there seem to take a dim view of that behaviour. Even if the breakup was over the fact you found her home alone with the entire troupe of circus midgets and a guy on stilts.

I didnt have to post any for her... found her's that she posted on Match.com to use myself in court
Along with call records to her "friends" from her cell... ahhhh, "Detail Billing" --- God love it (doesnt take a genuis to figure out if her cell is in my company's name --- I can access anything from the account -- blondes )

I didn't know the details of yours and don't want to seem like I was prying. I just remembered hearing the story of a guy out in CA who did the payback I described. The court took a dim view of it, perhaps because he provided her real name and address in the ads he posted.

and I know of at least one couple where the wife found "his" ad because the history of the browser autocompleted the URL and he had left his password and login information in the system to make it easier... I really hope the couch in the family room is oversized and extra long, because there is nothing worse than a lumpy couch with the arm hitting you in mid-calf...

RinglingRingling wrote:

tommcat327 wrote:you should do what i did.get a job as a DJ at a strip club and surround yourself with nekkid women and booze everyday

I can see this helping facilitate a healthy respect for women and a means to view them non-objectively...

huh?i just wanted to see naked women