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Posted: February 7, 2005 12:53 pm
by Jahfin
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:
carolinagirl wrote: SPEW! I guess you gotta do what you gotta do! Since my opinions differ from yours, I guess you'll have to do a lot of that. But watch out, you know what assuming does...
Yea it makes and ass out of you and not me.

I realize you're just taking up for someone who is obviously your friend - just as I have taken up from my friends. Now do you want to just agree that we have differences of opinions and leave it at that?
That's just the thing, carolinagirl and I have never met, much less exchanged messages. Well, until just now, so your "friend" thing doesn't work. What she did was offer a totally objective point of view, free of bias. If you had a chance to "inform" her, one could only guess what false conclusions she would have made.

Oh, and you got the "assume" thing totally wrong. Take the "not" out of there and you'll be on the right track.

you just lost - you just threw an insult at me!!!!!
Like the time you accused me of "threatening" you when I'd done nothing of the sort? In that regard, I can only guess you're referring to me correcting you on the meaning of "assume"? If that's indeed the case, that's all I was doing, I wasn't insulting you in the least.

Posted: February 7, 2005 12:57 pm
by ph4ever
nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:03 pm
by pair8head
carolinagirl wrote:How can so many people find so much fault with someone who is simply an independent thinker?


I am gonna start here.


I don't believe too many people here find that much fault with what
Jah post (yes I know some do)

One of the things that gets me personally is that Jah dosn't
seem to want anyone to like him and brings many of these
problems on himself (note: that is my opinion nothing else)

I have tried in the past to get on good terms with him,
but finally had to quit trying.

Another thing is that Jah is quite guilty (again my opinion) of
many of the very actions he accuses others of. He is very fast
to throw his two cents in into a thread where people just want
to discuss a band or artist they like. Now he is entitled to his
opinion of these bands and artist just as everyone else is.
However is it necessary for him to post his dislike on an artist
on every thread about that artist. We know he dosn't like particular
artists or bands. Why can't we discuss them without negativity at
least once in a while?

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:05 pm
by Jahfin
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:07 pm
by pair8head
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.

Well I guess I must have those same blinders on, cuz it looked like
you were throwing an insult at her to me.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:08 pm
by Jahfin
pair8head wrote:
carolinagirl wrote:How can so many people find so much fault with someone who is simply an independent thinker?


I am gonna start here.


I don't believe too many people here find that much fault with what
Jah post (yes I know some do)

One of the things that gets me personally is that Jah dosn't
seem to want anyone to like him and brings many of these
problems on himself (note: that is my opinion nothing else)

I have tried in the past to get on good terms with him,
but finally had to quit trying.

Another thing is that Jah is quite guilty (again my opinion) of
many of the very actions he accuses others of. He is very fast
to throw his two cents in into a thread where people just want
to discuss a band or artist they like. Now he is entitled to his
opinion of these bands and artist just as everyone else is.
However is it necessary for him to post his dislike on an artist
on every thread about that artist. We know he dosn't like particular
artists or bands. Why can't we discuss them without negativity at
least once in a while?
Do you think for a second I could start a thread about a band I like and realistically believe no one would voice their opposing opinion? No, I don't. I don't know about you, but I enjoy hearing from people that both like and dislike a particular band or artist. If I wanted to hear nothing but one side I'd go read their press release.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:09 pm
by ph4ever
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.
Jah I'm LMAO at you defending yourself right now. Of course I know what the saying is but you said you guarantee that you wouldn't say anything insulting - yet you did. That phrase in itself is an insult because you are in fact not only calling yourself and ass you are calling someone else an ass. By your correcting me and quoting the correct phrase you are still uttering the insult. You could have just ignored it and let it slide - but you couldn't do that.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:10 pm
by Jahfin
pair8head wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.

Well I guess I must have those same blinders on, cuz it looked like
you were throwing an insult at her to me.
If correcting her is considering throwing an insult then I'm guilty as charged but that wasn't what I wasn't what I was doing and the both of you know I wasn't. If I wanted to insult her, believe you me, I would have made that abundantly clear. Look up the saying about the word "assume" again and the word "not" is most definitely not included.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:12 pm
by Jahfin
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.
Jah I'm LMAO at you defending yourself right now. Of course I know what the saying is but you said you guarantee that you wouldn't say anything insulting - yet you did. That phrase in itself is an insult because you are in fact not only calling yourself and ass you are calling someone else an ass. By your correcting me and quoting the correct phrase you are still uttering the insult. You could have just ignored it and let it slide - but you couldn't do that.
How can correcting you be construed as an insult? Oh, I forget, this is BN where ph4ever is always correct and is not capable of fault. You want me to insult you? That I can most certainly do if you want but what I did was not an insult, not by a long shot.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:13 pm
by ph4ever
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.
Jah I'm LMAO at you defending yourself right now. Of course I know what the saying is but you said you guarantee that you wouldn't say anything insulting - yet you did. That phrase in itself is an insult because you are in fact not only calling yourself and ass you are calling someone else an ass. By your correcting me and quoting the correct phrase you are still uttering the insult. You could have just ignored it and let it slide - but you couldn't do that.
How can correcting you be construed as an insult? Oh, I forget, this is BN where ph4ever is always correct and is not capable of fault. You want me to insult you? That I can most certainly do if you want but what I did was not an insult, not by a long shot.

getting flustered there?? I haven't insulted you. And believe it or not I do admit fault and I have offered apologies when needed.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:15 pm
by pair8head
Jahfin wrote:
Do you think for a second I could start a thread about a band I like and realistically believe no one would voice their opposing opinion? No, I don't. I don't know about you, but I enjoy hearing from people that both like and dislike a particular band or artist. If I wanted to hear nothing but one side I'd go read their press release.

Believe it or not I don't. however my point was and still is that you consistantly
do this on each and every thread, those that do it on your threads
seem to do it once and after their point is made do not bring it up again.




And then promply post it here no doubt.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:22 pm
by IsleReef
Hi everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What did I miss???? :P :P :P :P :P

Let me get my asshat on and turn down my Ritchie Blackmore cd.........

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:22 pm
by Jahfin
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.
Jah I'm LMAO at you defending yourself right now. Of course I know what the saying is but you said you guarantee that you wouldn't say anything insulting - yet you did. That phrase in itself is an insult because you are in fact not only calling yourself and ass you are calling someone else an ass. By your correcting me and quoting the correct phrase you are still uttering the insult. You could have just ignored it and let it slide - but you couldn't do that.
How can correcting you be construed as an insult? Oh, I forget, this is BN where ph4ever is always correct and is not capable of fault. You want me to insult you? That I can most certainly do if you want but what I did was not an insult, not by a long shot.

getting flustered there?? I haven't insulted you.
I'm not flustered at all and just where did I say you had insulted me? I didn't. You got the saying for "assume" wrong and I corrected you which in your mind, you somehow percieved to be an insult, which it wasn't, nor was it intended as one. If wanted to insult you, I could have done so and left no question as to my intentions but that isn't what I did. I corrected you, there's a big difference.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:23 pm
by ph4ever
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


I'm glad you like that hat!!!

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:25 pm
by IsleReef
Jah, are being a d i c k head again????????? Hold on a minute so I can read back and make sure my asshat is on correctly..............

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:27 pm
by ph4ever
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:nope Jah you lost - you just can't admit to that fact. the way you worded it it could be taken as an insult. Another person that I don't know and don't discuss things with and don't pm saw that too.

Face it- you messed up and lost your own guarantee
Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.
Jah I'm LMAO at you defending yourself right now. Of course I know what the saying is but you said you guarantee that you wouldn't say anything insulting - yet you did. That phrase in itself is an insult because you are in fact not only calling yourself and ass you are calling someone else an ass. By your correcting me and quoting the correct phrase you are still uttering the insult. You could have just ignored it and let it slide - but you couldn't do that.
How can correcting you be construed as an insult? Oh, I forget, this is BN where ph4ever is always correct and is not capable of fault. You want me to insult you? That I can most certainly do if you want but what I did was not an insult, not by a long shot.

getting flustered there?? I haven't insulted you.
I'm not flustered at all and just where did I say you had insulted me? I didn't. You got the saying for "assume" wrong and I corrected you which in your mind, you somehow percieved to be an insult, which it wasn't, nor was it intended as one. If wanted to insult you, I could have done so and left no question as to my intentions but that isn't what I did. I corrected you, there's a big difference.

I never said that you said I insulted you. I just said I haven't insulted you. You have said that you could insult me and leave no question to your intentions. I think I could do the same. I'm pretty sure someone else will but I doubt they care about your guarantee made earlier.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:29 pm
by Jahfin
pair8head wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
Do you think for a second I could start a thread about a band I like and realistically believe no one would voice their opposing opinion? No, I don't. I don't know about you, but I enjoy hearing from people that both like and dislike a particular band or artist. If I wanted to hear nothing but one side I'd go read their press release.

Believe it or not I don't. however my point was and still is that you consistantly
do this on each and every thread, those that do it on your threads
seem to do it once and after their point is made do not bring it up again.




And then promply post it here no doubt.
I guess you're just going to have to get used to it then because I can voice my opinion just as others voice theirs. Funny what works for them doesn't work for me. I don't think I ever recall reading one ill word about the Drive-By Truckers here.

Here's something you keep ignoring. How about those that go into threads I've started and make posts that have absolutely nothing to add to them other than insults directed at me? Funny how you keep leaving that aspect of things out. If that isn't enough, how about when people steal someone's avatar knowing ahead of time it's only going to add fuel to the fire? Even better yet are those that choose a name very close to "Jahfin" and then post so people will think it's me? It must be nice to go through life with only one view of things but fortunately there are those of us that not only like to hear both sides but also encourage it. If there's a message board out there devoted to an artist that doesn't allow opposing viewpoints to anything, I've yet to see it. I'm sure if some of you could have your way, that's what you'd like to turn BN into but thank goodness that's not the case.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:31 pm
by IsleReef
carolinagirl wrote:
Jahfin wrote: I, for one, have never made a habit of bringing up someone's name in a post every time I get a chance just to insult them. Nor have I ever made it a habit of posting in another person's thread in attempt to get it off course.
What he says here, this has been my experience in reading Jahfin's posts. A LOT of other people behave the way he describes, and a couple of their friends seem to try to good-naturedly josh them into calling off the attacks. What it looks like to me, as an outsider, is that some people just feel threatened more easily.
Carolina Chick,,,,,, Yah have no clue................. Jah is an insulting arrogant dufus and thats a fact............... :P :P :P :pirate:

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:31 pm
by ph4ever
If you're that upset about someone using your David Cassidy or whoever he is (I can't remember) you are more than welcome to use mine.

Posted: February 7, 2005 1:32 pm
by Jahfin
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote:
ph4ever wrote:
Jahfin wrote: Lost? Lost what? The fact is, it wasn't intended as an insult. I can't help if you have blinders on and fail to acknowledge your own mistake but I really shouldn't be surprised at that by now.
Jah I'm LMAO at you defending yourself right now. Of course I know what the saying is but you said you guarantee that you wouldn't say anything insulting - yet you did. That phrase in itself is an insult because you are in fact not only calling yourself and ass you are calling someone else an ass. By your correcting me and quoting the correct phrase you are still uttering the insult. You could have just ignored it and let it slide - but you couldn't do that.
How can correcting you be construed as an insult? Oh, I forget, this is BN where ph4ever is always correct and is not capable of fault. You want me to insult you? That I can most certainly do if you want but what I did was not an insult, not by a long shot.

getting flustered there?? I haven't insulted you.
I'm not flustered at all and just where did I say you had insulted me? I didn't. You got the saying for "assume" wrong and I corrected you which in your mind, you somehow percieved to be an insult, which it wasn't, nor was it intended as one. If wanted to insult you, I could have done so and left no question as to my intentions but that isn't what I did. I corrected you, there's a big difference.

I never said that you said I insulted you. I just said I haven't insulted you. You have said that you could insult me and leave no question to your intentions. I think I could do the same. I'm pretty sure someone else will but I doubt they care about your guarantee made earlier.
And what exactly does that have to do with you getting the saying behind "assume" wrong? Sounds like you want to be insulted to me.