VD Test
Posted: February 11, 2005 10:11 am
No you a$$bags, Valentines Day.
btw, I had 100% right on the last test I posted. I will not answer this one
Is Your Marriage DOOMED?
Answer yes or no to these statements. Keep track of the yes's...
1. I can name my partner's best friends.
2. I know what stresses my partner is currently facing.
3. I know the names of some people who have been irritating my partner lately.
4. I can tell you some of my partner's life dreams.
5. I know my partner's basic philosophy of life.
6. I can list the relatives my partner likes best
7. I feel my partner knows me pretty well.
8. When we're apart, I think fondly of my partner.
9. I often touch or kiss my partner affectionately.
10. My partner really respects me.
11. There is passion in our relationship.
12. Romance is still part of our relationship.
13. My partner appreciates the things I do.
14. My partner likes my personality.
15. Our sex life is mostly satisfying.
16. At the end of the day, my partner is glad to see me.
17. My partner is one of my best friends.
18. We love just talking to each other.
19. There's lots of give and take (both people have influence) in our discussions.
20. My partner listens respectfully, even when we disagree.
21. My partner is usually a great help as a problem solver.
22. We generally mesh well on basic values and goals in life.
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15 or more positive answers: You have a lot of strength in your
relationship.
8 to 14: This is a pivotal time in your relationship. There are strengths you can build upon but there are weaknesses that need your attention.
7 or fewer: Your relationship may be in serious trouble. If this concerns you, you probably still value the relationship enough to try to get help.
btw, I had 100% right on the last test I posted. I will not answer this one
Is Your Marriage DOOMED?
Answer yes or no to these statements. Keep track of the yes's...
1. I can name my partner's best friends.
2. I know what stresses my partner is currently facing.
3. I know the names of some people who have been irritating my partner lately.
4. I can tell you some of my partner's life dreams.
5. I know my partner's basic philosophy of life.
6. I can list the relatives my partner likes best
7. I feel my partner knows me pretty well.
8. When we're apart, I think fondly of my partner.
9. I often touch or kiss my partner affectionately.
10. My partner really respects me.
11. There is passion in our relationship.
12. Romance is still part of our relationship.
13. My partner appreciates the things I do.
14. My partner likes my personality.
15. Our sex life is mostly satisfying.
16. At the end of the day, my partner is glad to see me.
17. My partner is one of my best friends.
18. We love just talking to each other.
19. There's lots of give and take (both people have influence) in our discussions.
20. My partner listens respectfully, even when we disagree.
21. My partner is usually a great help as a problem solver.
22. We generally mesh well on basic values and goals in life.
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15 or more positive answers: You have a lot of strength in your
relationship.
8 to 14: This is a pivotal time in your relationship. There are strengths you can build upon but there are weaknesses that need your attention.
7 or fewer: Your relationship may be in serious trouble. If this concerns you, you probably still value the relationship enough to try to get help.