Mal, are any of the things Matt is competitive in "artsy"? If not, would he feel differently if they were? Just curious.
And you ignored my band camp comment! I'm crushed!

But it actually wasn't all in jest. Some kids/people just aren't athletic. Their talents lie in other areas. Shouldn't they be allowed to compete to be the best at what they do just like an athlete? Music was extremely competitive at my high school and competitions were cutthroat. If you weren't good enough, you weren't allowed to compete with the band. It sounded awful when I first got there, but it actually took me from being an average musician to an excellent musician because I had to prove weekly that i was worthy of competing. And that in turn made me try harder in everything I did. And the reward came when we took sweeps at competition after competition. We earned it and we deserved it. It gave us a goal...without the reward I don't think we would have worked so hard. What would have been the point?
I agree there are waaaaay too many awards shows and the like and it has become a popularity contest in many cases. But I think if you're the best at what you do you should be rewarded for it, be it athletics, arts, whatever.