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Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 9:00 pm
by job41475
I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

They aren't real realtionships in the traditional sense, just a social work thing.

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 9:09 pm
by ragtopW
job41475 wrote:I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol

:) I had both too.. they are now on other teams and I don't get to see them as often :( :(

now.. well I see one starting..

Posted: May 7, 2007 9:13 pm
by TommyBahama
i've dated people i've worked with on a few occasions but no commitment......but that article sounded like people that need to get a life....that i couldn't do!!!.....too uncomfortable and too much gossip!!

Posted: May 7, 2007 9:17 pm
by SMLCHNG
Nope.. not me. I have very few CLOSE friends at work... Female or male. Just some nice friends. :)

Posted: May 7, 2007 9:29 pm
by buffettbride
I am married to my husband, not my job. :D

Posted: May 7, 2007 9:47 pm
by txaggirl91
YOU'RE CHEATING ON ME???????!!!!!!!!!!!

but - i thought you said i was different? i thought you said i was special?


[smilie=cwl.gif]

:wink:

Posted: May 7, 2007 9:52 pm
by Tequila Revenge
txaggirl91 wrote:YOU'RE CHEATING ON ME???????!!!!!!!!!!!

but - i thought you said i was different? i thought you said i was special?


[smilie=cwl.gif]

:wink:

Memo envy?

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:09 pm
by pojo
My boyfriend is a work related acquaintance....

I changed jobs.....and we moved apart, we ARE STILL together!

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:23 pm
by job41475
txaggirl91 wrote:YOU'RE CHEATING ON ME???????!!!!!!!!!!!

but - i thought you said i was different? i thought you said i was special?


[smilie=cwl.gif]

:wink:
lol You are special. The others mean nothing to me! lol
Nah, I could never do that to my BB!



:)

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:27 pm
by job41475
job41475 wrote:I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

They aren't real realtionships in the tradtional sense, just a social work thing.

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol
I know it's weird to quote yourself but my interpretation of it is that work relationships aren't real ones, It's kind of a new thing to me as when I was in hotels it's not quite as social in such a confined space....

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:48 pm
by ragtopW
job41475 wrote:
job41475 wrote:I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

They aren't real realtionships in the tradtional sense, just a social work thing.

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol
I know it's weird to quote yourself but my interpretation of it is that work relationships aren't real ones, It's kind of a new thing to me as when I was in hotels it's not quite as social in such a confined space....

really yep. I see more of those people than I do anyone else
and they,Me, I know about their kids,dogs,cats,fish
I know their Shopping days.. and they mine. We dish on movies
places to eat.. medical issues.

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:51 pm
by job41475
ragtopW wrote:
job41475 wrote:I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol

:) I had both too.. they are now on other teams and I don't get to see them as often :( :(

now.. well I see one starting..
Lesbians?

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:55 pm
by ragtopW
job41475 wrote:
ragtopW wrote:
job41475 wrote:I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol

:) I had both too.. they are now on other teams and I don't get to see them as often :( :(

now.. well I see one starting..
Lesbians?

no :lol: work teams.. :) :) we don't work at the same times anymore..
also I am in a new section so I no longer have breaks,and lunches
with them

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:55 pm
by SMLCHNG
job41475 wrote: Lesbians?
Prolly not - with what Wayne is saying - DIRECTV calls groups of employee's in the same 'call center' departments as "teams". :)

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:57 pm
by job41475
SMLCHNG wrote:
job41475 wrote: Lesbians?
Prolly not - with what Wayne is saying - DIRECTV calls groups of employee's in the same 'call center' departments as "teams". :)
lol i know. Just my lame attempt at humor! :)

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 7, 2007 10:58 pm
by job41475
ragtopW wrote:
job41475 wrote:
ragtopW wrote:
job41475 wrote:I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol

:) I had both too.. they are now on other teams and I don't get to see them as often :( :(

now.. well I see one starting..
Lesbians?

no :lol: work teams.. :) :) we don't work at the same times anymore..
also I am in a new section so I no longer have breaks,and lunches
with them
lol yeah I figured! :)

Posted: May 8, 2007 7:43 am
by txaggirl91
job41475 wrote:
txaggirl91 wrote:YOU'RE CHEATING ON ME???????!!!!!!!!!!!

but - i thought you said i was different? i thought you said i was special?


[smilie=cwl.gif]

:wink:
lol You are special. The others mean nothing to me! lol
Nah, I could never do that to my BB!



:)
that's what they all say.... :roll:

oh and you can't forget the other great line - "i never meant to hurt you"

Re: Work spouses

Posted: May 8, 2007 11:20 am
by RinglingRingling
job41475 wrote:
ragtopW wrote:
job41475 wrote:I came across an interesting article about 9 to 5 or Work marriages. In the job I'm in now this is a very real thing and in fact I have a work wife and now a work mistress. Never had an office job before but it seems this is a big thing atleast in my office. anyone else?

http://www.forbes.com/2007/04/17/office ... careersaol

:) I had both too.. they are now on other teams and I don't get to see them as often :( :(

now.. well I see one starting..
Lesbians?
or Red Sox...

Posted: May 8, 2007 11:26 am
by ToplessRideFL
I dont get close with the people I work with. Never really have. Work is work...... Of course I live by the motto that one shouldnt have too much personal stuff @ the office.... it should all fit in one box!!!

Posted: May 8, 2007 11:37 am
by Dezdmona
ToplessRideFL wrote:I dont get close with the people I work with. Never really have. Work is work...... Of course I live by the motto that one shouldnt have too much personal stuff @ the office.... it should all fit in one box!!!
Pretty good motto, really.

There can be a fine line between "business" and "emotional cheating". :wink: