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I've got a few but I wouldn't list them here but closure is important as is conquests and mystery!

They are all ex's. my fault came in always believing the grass was greener but then learned the grass would never get watered by me anyway . . .

buffettbride wrote:I don't think I'd want to have sex with anyone from my past again but there is definitely a "one that got away." When I lived in MN I worked with him and boy was he cute! But, I knew I wouldn't be in MN very long so I never really did more than make eyes at him. It was about that time that hubby and I started talking on the phone a lot and I moved to CO a few months later.

What I wouldn't have given to just plant a big 'ol kiss all over that Minnesota boy.

Interestingly enough, said boy moved to CO a few months after I moved back to CO. I met him for lunch once but by that time, hubby and I were headed down commitment road.

That's all.

oh come on mal...I counted on you to have a juicy story!!
btw...I have more than one from my past that I wouldn't mind having again...guess that means I have good taste in men!

Of course....more than one in fact ( I tend to daydream)......If I had to think of one, I can but she is married with kids now...

kitty wrote:

buffettbride wrote:I don't think I'd want to have sex with anyone from my past again but there is definitely a "one that got away." When I lived in MN I worked with him and boy was he cute! But, I knew I wouldn't be in MN very long so I never really did more than make eyes at him. It was about that time that hubby and I started talking on the phone a lot and I moved to CO a few months later.

What I wouldn't have given to just plant a big 'ol kiss all over that Minnesota boy.

Interestingly enough, said boy moved to CO a few months after I moved back to CO. I met him for lunch once but by that time, hubby and I were headed down commitment road.

That's all.

oh come on mal...I counted on you to have a juicy story!!
btw...I have more than one from my past that I wouldn't mind having again...guess that means I have good taste in men!

i had lousy taste in men (always had to have the bad boy). some of my encounters definitely were juicy, but i don't think i'd want to do them again.

buffettbride wrote:

kitty wrote:

buffettbride wrote:I don't think I'd want to have sex with anyone from my past again but there is definitely a "one that got away." When I lived in MN I worked with him and boy was he cute! But, I knew I wouldn't be in MN very long so I never really did more than make eyes at him. It was about that time that hubby and I started talking on the phone a lot and I moved to CO a few months later.

What I wouldn't have given to just plant a big 'ol kiss all over that Minnesota boy.

Interestingly enough, said boy moved to CO a few months after I moved back to CO. I met him for lunch once but by that time, hubby and I were headed down commitment road.

That's all.

oh come on mal...I counted on you to have a juicy story!!
btw...I have more than one from my past that I wouldn't mind having again...guess that means I have good taste in men!

i had lousy taste in men (always had to have the bad boy). some of my encounters definitely were juicy, but i don't think i'd want to do them again.

the 'bad boys' of my past are the ones I occasionally pine for......
there are a couple I think of now and then....mostly just wonder what happened to them....what prison they're in, stuff like that.....

I married well and don't look back................very often.

since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out love or real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

Long before Don and I got together I had that one guy that I always wondered "what if" about. I tracked his sister down thru classmates.com and contacted her.

Unfortunately he was murdered in 1986.

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out loveor real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

one night stands can be awesome

ph4ever wrote:

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out loveor real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

one night stands can be awesome

but never with a friend - it does something to the friendship

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out love or real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

I think if you're single and safe......knock yourself out......

If you're married.....be married......

pbans wrote:

buffettbride wrote:

kitty wrote:

buffettbride wrote:I don't think I'd want to have sex with anyone from my past again but there is definitely a "one that got away." When I lived in MN I worked with him and boy was he cute! But, I knew I wouldn't be in MN very long so I never really did more than make eyes at him. It was about that time that hubby and I started talking on the phone a lot and I moved to CO a few months later.

What I wouldn't have given to just plant a big 'ol kiss all over that Minnesota boy.

Interestingly enough, said boy moved to CO a few months after I moved back to CO. I met him for lunch once but by that time, hubby and I were headed down commitment road.

That's all.

oh come on mal...I counted on you to have a juicy story!!
btw...I have more than one from my past that I wouldn't mind having again...guess that means I have good taste in men!

i had lousy taste in men (always had to have the bad boy). some of my encounters definitely were juicy, but i don't think i'd want to do them again.

the 'bad boys' of my past are the ones I occasionally pine for......
there are a couple I think of now and then....mostly just wonder what happened to them....what prison they're in, stuff like that.....

I married well and don't look back................very often.

one of my favorites (actually the second boy ever) i ran into at the grocery store a few years back. he had a wife, kids and was wearing sweatpants with top siders. yuck.

oohhhh. this is kind of juicy. one of the boys i was dating about the time i got pregnant with my daughter (a story for another time) ended up being a coworker of hubby's. he was a guitar player and hubby plays drums so they were going to set up a time when they could "jam." well, one night hubby and i were talking about it and he said his last name and OMG i about wet my pants. i just let hubby know that he might not want to invite that boy over to our house. that's the only "ex" encounter hubby and i have had since we've been together. i always figured it'd be one of HIS flames we ran into along the way.

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out love or real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

You mean there's another kind?

pbans wrote:

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out love or real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

I think if you're single and safe......knock yourself out......

If you're married.....be married......

I agree...just thinking is not the same as doing!

LIPH wrote:

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out love or real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

You mean there's another kind?

yes, but you usually only find the other kind once! Keep looking, lar!

ph4ever wrote:

ph4ever wrote:

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out loveor real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

one night stands can be awesome

but never with a friend - it does something to the friendship

guess it depends on the friend.....I know people with f*ck buddies and it works well for them.......

pbans wrote:

ph4ever wrote:

ph4ever wrote:

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out loveor real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

one night stands can be awesome

but never with a friend - it does something to the friendship

guess it depends on the friend.....I know people with f*ck buddies and it works well for them.......

my single sister has a few "friends with benefits"

kitty wrote:

pbans wrote:

ph4ever wrote:

ph4ever wrote:

kitty wrote:since we seem to be sort of on the subject...what is your thinking on sex with out loveor real commitment? You know...just good, fun sex between friends and very little emotional envolvement. I've had this conversation with several people and wonder what everyonme's take on it is.

one night stands can be awesome

but never with a friend - it does something to the friendship

guess it depends on the friend.....I know people with f*ck buddies and it works well for them.......

my single sister has a few "friends with benefits"

to me there's a difference between a true friend and a "friend with benefits"

I still see my true friends - I don't know where my last "friend with benefits" even is

AlbatrossFlyer wrote:

kitty wrote:

LIPH wrote:

kitty wrote:

LIPH wrote:I don't think the site has enough bandwidth to list them all.

yeah, well you are still single...it's all legal for you to do anyone you want!

Only single women. I have very few scruples but staying away from married women is one of them.

Shoot...there's goes my fantacy!

i have no scruples, besides married women aren't looking for commitment

Great, I'm flexible... let's get together!

And Desdemona, I also have the hundred extra pounds and a few extra years... gets in one's way sometimes!


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