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Posted: December 5, 2007 9:38 pm
by SMLCHNG
Females think with emotions
Males think with their ... body parts
It is what it is.
I personally don't think children should have sex/intercourse/oral sex till they're 18.
Shame on any adult, male or female, who takes advantage of a CHILD.
IMHO, of course.
Posted: December 6, 2007 12:02 am
by mjeischen
SMLCHNG wrote:Females think with emotions
Males think with their ... body parts
It is what it is.
I personally don't think children should have sex/intercourse/oral sex till they're 18.
Shame on any adult, male or female, who takes advantage of a CHILD.
IMHO, of course.
Kids/Children/Teens will do what they do. If they are raised right they will do good by their parents/guardians. So we hope anyway . . .
Posted: December 6, 2007 1:57 am
by pbans
12vmanRick wrote:pbans wrote:
I have a very mature 15 year old daughter, but I would destroy, literally and figuratively, any adult male that took advantage of her youth and the glorious naivete that she gets to possess for such a short time.
what if she pursued them and took the advantage knowing full well what she was doing? would you do the same to her? I doubt it
well, she wouldn't...and yes, I can say that with certainty.
I am NOT saying there aren't teenage girls/boys that are very complicit
in some of these cases......BUT the bottom line is that the law is written to regulate the actions of the ADULT.....the minor is the protected party.
It is, and should be, IMO the adult's responsibility to exercise better judgement and walk the f*ck away and move on to the MULTITUDE of available adult partners.
Posted: December 6, 2007 7:42 am
by 12vmanRick
pbans wrote:12vmanRick wrote:pbans wrote:
I have a very mature 15 year old daughter, but I would destroy, literally and figuratively, any adult male that took advantage of her youth and the glorious naivete that she gets to possess for such a short time.
what if she pursued them and took the advantage knowing full well what she was doing? would you do the same to her? I doubt it
well, she wouldn't...and yes, I can say that with certainty.
I am NOT saying there aren't teenage girls/boys that are very complicit
in some of these cases......BUT the bottom line is that the law is written to regulate the actions of the ADULT.....the minor is the protected party.
It is, and should be, IMO the adult's responsibility to exercise better judgement and walk the f*ck away and move on to the MULTITUDE of available adult partners.
Then you have done well as a parent
I was asking hypothetically IF she did though.
Posted: December 6, 2007 9:15 am
by pbans
12vmanRick wrote:pbans wrote:12vmanRick wrote:pbans wrote:
I have a very mature 15 year old daughter, but I would destroy, literally and figuratively, any adult male that took advantage of her youth and the glorious naivete that she gets to possess for such a short time.
what if she pursued them and took the advantage knowing full well what she was doing? would you do the same to her? I doubt it
well, she wouldn't...and yes, I can say that with certainty.
I am NOT saying there aren't teenage girls/boys that are very complicit
in some of these cases......BUT the bottom line is that the law is written to regulate the actions of the ADULT.....the minor is the protected party.
It is, and should be, IMO the adult's responsibility to exercise better judgement and walk the f*ck away and move on to the MULTITUDE of available adult partners.
Then you have done well as a parent
I was asking hypothetically IF she did though.
Thanks....and yeah, I think I've done okay....
Hypothetically, IF I knew my kid were like that, I believe it would be my responsibility to WARN the other person involved....but again, the onus is on the adult.
I'm tempted many times to do things that I know are wrong or illegal.....and every time I have to make a choice.....and live with the consequences of that choice.....
Posted: December 6, 2007 9:30 am
by mjeischen
So won't you listen to the sound of a hot country band,
Boot heels shufflin' on the dance floor sand
Sing a song, play some pong, shoot a little pool,
Hittin' on the honeys right out of high school.
Yeah, fifteen will get you twenty,
but that's all right,
"Cause they're rockin and a rollin' on a
Livingston Saturday Night
Paige, looking at your avatar the answer was right there all along.
Posted: December 6, 2007 10:55 am
by 12vmanRick
pbans wrote:12vmanRick wrote:pbans wrote:12vmanRick wrote:pbans wrote:
I have a very mature 15 year old daughter, but I would destroy, literally and figuratively, any adult male that took advantage of her youth and the glorious naivete that she gets to possess for such a short time.
what if she pursued them and took the advantage knowing full well what she was doing? would you do the same to her? I doubt it
well, she wouldn't...and yes, I can say that with certainty.
I am NOT saying there aren't teenage girls/boys that are very complicit
in some of these cases......BUT the bottom line is that the law is written to regulate the actions of the ADULT.....the minor is the protected party.
It is, and should be, IMO the adult's responsibility to exercise better judgement and walk the f*ck away and move on to the MULTITUDE of available adult partners.
Then you have done well as a parent
I was asking hypothetically IF she did though.
Thanks....and yeah, I think I've done okay....
Hypothetically, IF I knew my kid were like that, I believe it would be my responsibility to WARN the other person involved....but again, the onus is on the adult.
I'm tempted many times to do things that I know are wrong or illegal.....and every time I have to make a choice.....and live with the consequences of that choice.....
fair answer
believe me I am not condoning the behaviour
I just feel there is more to blame and take blame than the adult