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ragtopW wrote:I speak Fluent PHAW...

Is there a short cut to learning that?

Yes!
After an unforgivable and horrible incident at my job last week I refuse to speak to two different people there, well unless it involves work and I'm forced two. One of them I've known for ten years. I don't think it's one of those "time heals all wounds" things either.
Right now I don't give two monkey craps about them.

LIPH wrote:

ragtopW wrote:I speak Fluent PHAW...

Is there a short cut to learning that?

It's like Zulu or Xhosa.. lots of clicks, and peeps...

ParrotheadKalee wrote:

pbans wrote:yes, I carry a grudge.....but I also believe in karma....so I don't really act on them....time will take care of things.

Agree 100%! Karma will get those people every time

I am a believer in "what goes around comes around"...it may take years to happen but eventually the universe has a way of righting the wrongs. I try to make a point of only spreading good karma.

...that being said...He** yes I carry grudges none involving my BN family of course!

I don't hold grudges against many people; in fact, I think there is only one I hold a grudge against. (Co-worker at a job 10 years ago)

BUT, I hold grudges against sports teams.

Not really, I don't like wasting my time or energy on people that causes grudges. If a person does somethng for you to resent them, I just ignore them, Breathe In, Breathe Out, Move on!

At first I thought I didn't hold grudges, but just tonight I remembered that I will not go to McDonald's since that night 25 years ago when they called the cops on me and I spent the night in the pokey. Grrrrr...down with the clown.

this is timely
BTW.. yep still do..

I firmly believe that everyone gets what's coming to them - good or bad - before it's all over.

But until that happens, I can hold a grudge with the best of 'em.

Yes, I will hold a grudge depending on what happened. I have one that's been ongoing since 2005 and I hope that person burns in hell.

aeroparrot wrote:Yes, I will hold a grudge depending on what happened. I have one that's been ongoing since 2005 and I hope that person burns in hell.

yep - me too. From 2005 maybe my person and your person can have tea with the devil

Just one - though the longer it goes on the less I even care anymore. And it's not someone who is in my life anyway.

Nope..

I get it out of my system and then let bygones..

ph4ever wrote:

aeroparrot wrote:Yes, I will hold a grudge depending on what happened. I have one that's been ongoing since 2005 and I hope that person burns in hell.

yep - me too. From 2005 maybe my person and your person can have tea with the devil

I hope so. Some people here will know who I'm talking about too.

bocanuts wrote:I have an old coworker who may be the most detestable person on the earth. Very conniving, backstabbing, always kissing the boss's ass.

I remembered this story the other day
I once cooked for a living.. our system was for the servers to write down their orders and to write the time on the upper left corner of the ticket, well, we had a "server" who would backdate the time (7:00 not
7:15) then come back and yell at the kitchen to speed up her
tables order and to quit slacking..... well she got away with it
because she had a big boyfriend and threatened to sic him on us..
and We knew (he had already threatened a former manager)
he would at her direction come at us.. I let it go.. and go... and go...
(I was just divorced and angry at the world) one night they were walking into a store just as I was walking in.. yep.. I dumped him..
laid a fed boots in too.. told him... "keep your Bit#$ in line or else"


she quit...

Long term grudges ..... not worth the negative energy. Life's too short. JMHO

Well I try not to be a grudge holder but...I always end up doing it.

yes i do!!! p*** me off , screw me , i don't forget or forgive!!!

ragtopW wrote:this is timely
BTW.. yep still do..

Q: Do I hold grudges?
A: for a bit. Then, breathe in, breathe out, move on. There's so many other things that are wonderful in life to spend energy on. Karma happens.