School shooting
Posted: August 21, 2008 12:51 pm
If the other kid still had the gun, I think I'd be running the other way too. If he really wanted the other kid dead, he might be willing to injure anyone trying to help him.green1 wrote:What is wrong with kids these days? One kid 10 feet away heard what happened, realized it was real and then ran away to call his mom. No thought to try and help the kid who was juts shot. Unreal.
It's the "not my problem" syndrome. It's learned from the parents.green1 wrote:What is wrong with kids these days? One kid 10 feet away heard what happened, realized it was real and then ran away to call his mom. No thought to try and help the kid who was juts shot. Unreal.
We're talking a 14 year old kid - he was probably scared shiatless and wanted to talk to his mom right at that moment. A 14 year old kid may not know what to do in that extreme a circumstance. Considering the high risk of disease passed with blood born pathogens I can't fault the 14 year old kid one stinking bit for not sticking around.green1 wrote:What is wrong with kids these days? One kid 10 feet away heard what happened, realized it was real and then ran away to call his mom. No thought to try and help the kid who was juts shot. Unreal.
Unless you have metal detectors and full searches, you can bring almost anything into a school. Since many schools have done away with lockers, kids are always carrying backpacks loaded with everything but the kitchen sink. As for getting the gun, we'll have to wait and see if he got it from home or acquired it another way.chippewa wrote:How does a student have access to a gun, much less get it into a school? Why do we keep allowing this to happen?
Yeah, too bad that the kid that fell on his arm. That 14 year old kid dying right next to him didn't have time to tell him if he did or didn't have any blood born pathogens. Maybe he went to the nearest people around for help, and the response was to run away. I am sure that 14 year odl kid was, as you put it, Scared shiatless that he was dying. Too bad the people about 10 feet away wouldn't help. I don't blame the kid, as someone else said, I blame the parents. He is a kid that should have been taught to protect those that need protecting. To help those that need help.ph4ever wrote:We're talking a 14 year old kid - he was probably scared shiatless and wanted to talk to his mom right at that moment. A 14 year old kid may not know what to do in that extreme a circumstance. Considering the high risk of disease passed with blood born pathogens I can't fault the 14 year old kid one stinking bit for not sticking around.green1 wrote:What is wrong with kids these days? One kid 10 feet away heard what happened, realized it was real and then ran away to call his mom. No thought to try and help the kid who was juts shot. Unreal.
Let's not forget the KID IS ONLY 14.
Absolutely. I've got a kid and a bunch of firearms at home. If I were to fail at either my duty to keep them inaccessible or my duty to teach him about safe firearms use, then I fully expect to be held responsible if he causes harm with my weapons.AlbatrossFlyer wrote:2) until parents are truly held accountable for their children's actions nothing will change. if the gun belonged to a parent try both the kid and the parent for murder.
You were blaiming the 14 year old kid. And just an FYI - any number of us could have a blood born pathogen and not even freaking know about it. As far as the running - HE DID THE RIGHT THING except for the fact he did not run and HIDE and not call 911. How in the hell can you expect all 14 year old kids to have the maturity to "protect" someone while a gun toteing kid is going around shooting. How was that 14 year old kid to know that the gunkid was going to stop with just one?green1 wrote:Yeah, too bad that the kid that fell on his arm. That 14 year old kid dying right next to him didn't have time to tell him if he did or didn't have any blood born pathogens. Maybe he went to the nearest people around for help, and the response was to run away. I am sure that 14 year odl kid was, as you put it, Scared shiatless that he was dying. Too bad the people about 10 feet away wouldn't help. I don't blame the kid, as someone else said, I blame the parents. He is a kid that should have been taught to protect those that need protecting. To help those that need help.ph4ever wrote:We're talking a 14 year old kid - he was probably scared shiatless and wanted to talk to his mom right at that moment. A 14 year old kid may not know what to do in that extreme a circumstance. Considering the high risk of disease passed with blood born pathogens I can't fault the 14 year old kid one stinking bit for not sticking around.green1 wrote:What is wrong with kids these days? One kid 10 feet away heard what happened, realized it was real and then ran away to call his mom. No thought to try and help the kid who was juts shot. Unreal.
Let's not forget the KID IS ONLY 14.
Good points. The "fight or flight" adrenaline response lowers IQ by several points, according to some studies. I know that *I* don't think calmly and clearly when faced with an emergency/threat situation, and I've never been staring down a gun. Afterward, yeah, I'll Monday morning quarterback myself. And I'll bet this kid is doing that right now too.ph4ever wrote:You were blaiming the 14 year old kid. And just an FYI - any number of us could have a blood born pathogen and not even freaking know about it. As far as the running - HE DID THE RIGHT THING except for the fact he did not run and HIDE and not call 911. How in the hell can you expect all 14 year old kids to have the maturity to "protect" someone while a gun toteing kid is going around shooting. How was that 14 year old kid to know that the gunkid was going to stop with just one?green1 wrote:Yeah, too bad that the kid that fell on his arm. That 14 year old kid dying right next to him didn't have time to tell him if he did or didn't have any blood born pathogens. Maybe he went to the nearest people around for help, and the response was to run away. I am sure that 14 year odl kid was, as you put it, Scared shiatless that he was dying. Too bad the people about 10 feet away wouldn't help. I don't blame the kid, as someone else said, I blame the parents. He is a kid that should have been taught to protect those that need protecting. To help those that need help.ph4ever wrote:We're talking a 14 year old kid - he was probably scared shiatless and wanted to talk to his mom right at that moment. A 14 year old kid may not know what to do in that extreme a circumstance. Considering the high risk of disease passed with blood born pathogens I can't fault the 14 year old kid one stinking bit for not sticking around.green1 wrote:What is wrong with kids these days? One kid 10 feet away heard what happened, realized it was real and then ran away to call his mom. No thought to try and help the kid who was juts shot. Unreal.
Let's not forget the KID IS ONLY 14.
For that matter- how the hell do you know how you would act in that situation unless you've had a gun pulled on you? IMHO any harshness towards any of the kids that witnessed this and ran is totally uncalled for.
now there's a leap of unsubstantiated crap.... so instead we should teach non-violence conflict resolution and have a draft?TropicalTroubador wrote: Our society - our government - isn't willing to teach kids that there are other ways than violence to resolve conflicts, because if they *did*, nobody would volunteer for the military anymore. I believe that the tragedy begins *there*.
Remind me to never be near you, or your children, when the s*** hits the fan. Apparently you believe that there is no higher purpose in life than self preservation. I have been in situations were weapons have been drawn. Have you? We are all responsible for the choices we make. It is those choices that define and make up our character. The kid ran when another kid was dying. Those are the actions of a 14 year old who is old enough to know better. Those are the actions of a kid whose parents failed to teach him about the importance and preciousness of life.ph4ever wrote:You were blaiming the 14 year old kid. And just an FYI - any number of us could have a blood born pathogen and not even freaking know about it. As far as the running - HE DID THE RIGHT THING except for the fact he did not run and HIDE and not call 911. How in the hell can you expect all 14 year old kids to have the maturity to "protect" someone while a gun toteing kid is going around shooting. How was that 14 year old kid to know that the gunkid was going to stop with just one?
For that matter- how the hell do you know how you would act in that situation unless you've had a gun pulled on you? IMHO any harshness towards any of the kids that witnessed this and ran is totally uncalled for.
Our government? Stop it. The parents are the problem. Stop looking to the government for solutions. It isn't going to happen. Most that volunteer for the military don't do it because they want to fight, most pray they won't have to. The real tragedy is that the parents are not raising their children.TropicalTroubador wrote: Our society - our government - isn't willing to teach kids that there are other ways than violence to resolve conflicts, because if they *did*, nobody would volunteer for the military anymore. I believe that the tragedy begins *there*.
Want to cut down on school violence? Learn conflict resolution skills. Learn esteem-building skills. Volunteer to teach them at the local elementary school. Be prepared for some rejection.