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My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 11:39 am
by SeaNile
Right around Christmas my father, 70, passed away. We had a million great times together and he was the one who introduced me to Jimmy's music from a pretty early age. I always knew he liked Jimmy's music but didn't realize just how much till it was time to help my Mom clean out the house. I guess the cd with 125+ songs of all Jimmy which we played on our fishing trips should have given me a clue. The night he passed as the entire family was gathered at the house we decided to go into his office and gather some of his CD's a listen to them. I was certain to find Ella Fitzgerald, Frank but was shocked to see how many Buffett CD's where in there. So there is the family trying to have a mournful evening but all we could find was Buffett CD's. It was great. Certainly brought back a lot of memories. Then the following week it's time to clean out the house and again was surprised to see how many concert T shirts he had in his closet. I didn't realize he was going to Buffett concerts all these years. I will never forget the one show in Camden with my now wife and Dad, it was the first time I heard Jimmy's version of Southern Cross. it's something I will never forget.
Like a true sailor my Dad's wishes were to be spread out at sea. The family agrees a Buffett playlist needs to be made for the voyage. Southern Cross and It's Been a Lovely Cruise will for sure be on the list. It'll be a somber day for sure when the weather breaks, the family gathers, the diesel engines fire up and "It's Been a Lovely Cruise" is on the stereo. Our boat was his pride and joy and I can think of nothing more fitting then him going on this one last trip.
The circle of life is amazing. My 4 year old absolutely loves Jimmy and it is comforting to see how some things are passed on from generation to generation.
--JK
www.seanile31.com
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 11:42 am
by dnw
Sail on, SeaNile's father.
(((((((SeaNile)))))))
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 11:44 am
by tikitatas
Sail on, fellow phan . . .
And may your family always feel his spirit in the music!
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 11:48 am
by phjrsaunt
Your dad was a good guy. I know what you mean about the circle of life. Thoughts are with you.
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 11:57 am
by rich_big
sail on, dad.
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 12:01 pm
by citcat
Sail on, SeaNile's dad. Another Parrothead for Heaven !!!
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 1:11 pm
by Karacal
(((((SeaNile and family))))))
So sorry to hear of your loss...
May your wonderful memories give you much comfort....
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 1:50 pm
by Conolulu
Thank you for sharing your Dad with us, SeaNile...
Sail on SeaNile's Dad......God Speed, and we'll meet one day...
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 2:09 pm
by fruityparrothead
Sail on PHan.....
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 2:57 pm
by moeron
Sail On. My Dad has been gone since 1996. Every time I hear Country & Western music I think of both my Mon and Dad.
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 3:00 pm
by LIBuffettFan
Sail On SeaNile's Dad. My thoughts are with you and yours.
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 3:00 pm
by Couganata
God bless him and your family my friend.
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 3:02 pm
by luvinlife
Sail On Sir! May God hold you in the palm of his hands!!!!
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 3:03 pm
by luvinlife
Sail On Sir! May God hold you in the palm of his hands!!!!
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 3:35 pm
by flipflopgirl
So sorry for your loss!!! (((((((((((((((((((Seanile and family)))))))))))))))))) many thought and prayers for you all.
Sail on Sir!

Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 3:49 pm
by Dezdmona
What an inspiring story. Your Dad would be proud.
Sail on fine sir.
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 4:13 pm
by TSU86
Bless you and your entire family.
I've never had the experience of spreading a loved ones ashes, but I think since there will be some time between his death, and the cruise, perhaps it won't be somber. Perhaps it will be a beautiful day of celebration, spent on board your dad's boat.
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 4:26 pm
by Finnsaremorefun
Peace be with you all
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 4:39 pm
by GumboPirate
Sail on...my condolences to you and yours...
Now you have your own pirate in the sky to watch over you all
Re: My father passes and Jimmy looses a great fan
Posted: February 20, 2009 6:06 pm
by Bfan53again
Prayers to the family and thanks for sharing..........
God Bless