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Etiquette 101

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Your invited to a party at the last minute (2 hours prior) personally, you offer the gentleman some Rum Jumbie as a ty/ appreciation, because you have a good buzz going on :D he say's just bring it :roll: Do you bring the open bottle, do you bring a new bottle keeping in mind I only have 2.5 bottles and one is spoken for at a Buffett concert in Aug. and it's nearly impossible to get it anywhere. Also there's no way what ever I bring will not be drank/drunk I feel weird bringing a bottle home after bringing it to a party. So the right thing to do is???? Also the wife is an attorney and the husband is the top emergency management guy of my county who pulled a few strings when we were without electricity during the blizzaards this past winter and who will probably do the same if we get hurricanes this summer.. :-? :-? :-? Finally don't you hate sobering up just to get drunk again ....
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How good of friends? How full is the bottle? Personally, I'd bring an open one, and tell them this was your last bottle, but wanted to share. :)
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SMLCHNG wrote:How good of friends? How full is the bottle? Personally, I'd bring an open one, and tell them this was your last bottle, but wanted to share. :)
I like that idea.
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backstreets77 wrote:
SMLCHNG wrote:How good of friends? How full is the bottle? Personally, I'd bring an open one, and tell them this was your last bottle, but wanted to share. :)
I like that idea.
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He's my neighbor, we cocktail often at each other's home!!!
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Then that's really up to you.. if you wanna share all of it or some. And if wouldn't make you uncomfortable to not share a whole bottle. :)
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So if he's your neighbor, does that mean that the little favor he pulled for you was actually one that he benefited from?

I'd take the open bottle.
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Where I come from, you take a new bottle and leave it at the hosts home whether it gets opened or not.
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New bottle....you did not say you have a open bottle of something that you would like to bring....if it is (real) family....and you are adding to the liquor supply that is different.

This is a gift.

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Cocktail is not a verb.
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buffettbride wrote:Cocktail is not a verb.
You're confused. He was asking for etiquette advice, not grammar lessons! :pirate:
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Post by Glorfindel7 »

I'm actually suprised Cocktail didn't get bleeped :o

I probably would not take an open bottle to a party because I would not take it back home once I brought it. However if this is a "neighbor" and short notice, and you only have a single bottle (and that is opened) it's probably okay, with the understanding that

1. It hasn't been opened too long.
2. You have NO intention of leaving with it.
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If it was byob and just me drinking it, open bottle. Bringing something for my host...gotta go sealed bottle even if I have to step down a grade and they don't get the good stuph. Serve him a drink from your open bottle next time he's at your house. An open bottle seems kind of like bringing a big bowl of dip that already has a few swipes out of it or a pizza with a few slices gone.
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could bring a full/closed bottle of something nice as a gift, and then bring the opened bottle to share and bring back home with you?
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pema wrote:could bring a full/closed bottle of something nice as a gift, and then bring the opened bottle to share and bring back home with you?
Now I like this compromise better. :)
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I would lie a little and say it was the last bottle you had and you just HAD to bring what you had left, cause you know how much they will like it. Also, I would bring a full, unopened bottle of something else. You still have your 2 bottles in reserve and you shared the good stuff.
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We (the party goers) ended up drinking a bottle and a half by the end of the night 8) 8) 8) cocktail is both a noun and a verb in my dictionary I could probably use it as an adjective as well :oops: :oops: :oops: When your seriously concerned about the welfare of your family because your snowed in, it's getting dark, and you have no electricity/heat you really don't care if a favor benefits the individual that was trying to assist you :wink:
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